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<h1 data-aos="fade-down" id="daily-dose">Daily-Dose</h1>
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<li><a href="#from-new-yorker">From New Yorker</a></li>
<li><a href="#from-vox">From Vox</a></li>
<li><a href="#from-the-hindu-sports">From The Hindu: Sports</a></li>
<li><a href="#from-the-hindu-national-news">From The Hindu: National News</a></li>
<li><a href="#from-bbc-europe">From BBC: Europe</a></li>
<li><a href="#from-ars-technica">From Ars Technica</a></li>
<li><a href="#from-jokes-subreddit">From Jokes Subreddit</a></li>
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<h1 data-aos="fade-right" id="from-new-yorker">From New Yorker</h1>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Joe Biden, Once Again, Lucks Out with His Enemies</strong> - In his State of the Union address, the President offered a strong performance—with an assist from House Republicans. - <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/news/letter-from-bidens-washington/joe-biden-once-again-lucks-out-with-his-enemies">link</a></p></li>
<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Why Some Florida Schools Are Removing Books from Their Libraries</strong> - “If I werent living through it, I wouldnt believe its happening,” one parent, who has worked as a substitute teacher, said. - <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/news/letter-from-the-south/why-some-florida-schools-are-removing-books-from-their-libraries">link</a></p></li>
<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Joe Bidens Innovative Attempt to Reshape the American Economy</strong> - In his State of the Union address, the President will likely emphasize landmark legislation designed to create an ambitious industrial policy. - <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/news/our-columnists/joe-bidens-innovative-attempt-to-reshape-the-american-economy">link</a></p></li>
<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>The U.N. Secretary-Generals Searing Message for the Fossil-Fuel Industry</strong> - Forget diplomatic language—its a moment for some home truths. - <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/news/daily-comment/the-un-secretary-generals-searing-message-for-the-fossil-fuel-industry">link</a></p></li>
<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Salman Rushdie on Surviving the Fatwa</strong> - In his first interview since a near-fatal knife attack in August, the novelist talks with David Remnick about his recovery, and his new novel. - <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/podcast/the-new-yorker-radio-hour/salman-rushdie-on-surviving-the-fatwa">link</a></p></li>
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<li><strong>How to go car-free — or car-light — in Middle America</strong> -
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A guide to going without four wheels, even if you dont live in NYC.
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People like me who choose to get by without a car in a place like Cleveland, where I live, or just about anywhere in the US outside a few dense coastal cities tend to get a reputation for being a bit eccentric. After all, we are the exceptions in a nation that was built around the automobile.
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Adults, especially workers, who dont drive are a rare breed in the US. About <a href="https://data.census.gov/table?q=S0801:+COMMUTING+CHARACTERISTICS+BY+SEX&amp;hidePreview=true&amp;tid=ACSST1Y2018.S0801">85 percent</a> of American workers use a car to commute daily, the vast majority of them driving alone. Only about <a href="https://www.census.gov/acs/www/about/why-we-ask-each-question/vehicles/">8 percent</a> of US households dont have a vehicle. For many, its because they <a href="https://www.bts.gov/archive/publications/highlights_of_the_2001_national_household_travel_survey/section_01">cant afford one</a>, not because they dont want one. People of color are <a href="https://nationalequityatlas.org/indicators/Car_access#/">less likely</a> to have access to a car than white people, a difference that tracks with wealth disparities. Those with higher incomes who dont have cars are <a href="https://slate.com/business/2019/05/maps-car-ownership-income-population-density-green-new-deal.html">more likely to live in</a> one of a handful of major metros with robust legacy transit systems like New York, Boston, or Washington, DC.
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Yet there is a small but mighty group of people who live in low-density areas and choose to be car-free. And its gaining a foothold (or at least fighting for one) in midsize and interior American cities. Although the US is still overwhelmingly designed around cars, younger generations are <a href="https://qz.com/2109753/us-millennials-drive-less-than-older-generations">driving</a> <a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2023/01/13/top-retirement-states/">less</a> than their older counterparts and seeking alternative ways of getting around. The reasons range from the altruistic to the economical. Going car-free is far better for the planet (transportation is the countrys <a href="https://www.epa.gov/ghgemissions/sources-greenhouse-gas-emissions">top source</a> of carbon emissions, with cars responsible for nearly 60 percent of those), <a href="https://www.mrc-epid.cam.ac.uk/blog/2018/05/22/active-travel-reduce-risk-heart-disease/">individual health</a>, and, because car crashes are a major cause of death in the US, <a href="https://www.vox.com/23016529/there-are-no-accidents-jessie-singer">public safety</a>. Considering the <a href="https://www.nerdwallet.com/article/loans/auto-loans/total-cost-owning-car">immense costs</a> of owning a car, its easier on the wallet, too. And with so many Americans now <a href="https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2022/people-working-from-home.html">working from home</a>, theres arguably never been a better time to try it.
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But ditching cars in a country thats thoroughly dependent on them isnt for the faint of heart. The car-free folks I spoke with had a common list of complaints: dangerous conditions for walking or biking, buses that run on unworkable schedules, or relatives who live in distant, inaccessible locations. But many say the benefits make it more than worthwhile, and even short of abandoning your car entirely, theres a range of alternatives that allow you to significantly reduce how much you drive — an option I call “car-light,” the transportation version of <a href="https://www.vox.com/future-perfect/22876904/eat-less-meat-vegetarian-vegan-flexitarian-resolutions-tips">a reducetarian diet</a>. Having done it for a long time in Cleveland (my husband has a car that I occasionally use), I can attest that it might be more doable than you think. If youre curious about making the plunge yourself, here is our advice.
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You dont have to rely on public transit (but it helps)
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Many Americans might imagine that to live without a car, you need access to great public transportation — which is hard to come by outside of a few coastal cities. But while the car-light might look longingly at the kind of extensive and reliable transit system <a href="https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2022/12/top-10-cities-with-best-public-transport/">enjoyed by Hongkongers or Berliners</a>, its not a prerequisite for living without a car, since most trips people make by car are relatively short. <a href="https://nhts.ornl.gov/vehicle-trips">Almost half</a> of US car rides are 3 miles or less, and the majority are four miles or less — distances that, for many nondisabled people, are eminently bikable, if not walkable.
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But transit aside, the infrastructure needed for pedestrians and cyclists, like safe sidewalks and bike paths, can vary dramatically. Many people I spoke with said the most important consideration when giving up a car isnt necessarily the city you live in, but the neighborhood you call home. Even in car-dependent regions like the Midwestern and Southern US, you can find sweet spots that function as “<a href="https://www.cnu.org/publicsquare/2021/01/25/15-minute-neighborhood-gets-its-15-minutes-fame">15-minute neighborhoods</a>” — an urban planning term for places where daily essentials are available within a short, convenient walk.
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Ashira Morris, who lives with her husband in Tallahassee, Florida (a city with an average of <a href="https://datausa.io/profile/geo/tallahassee-fl">two cars</a> per household), and has never owned a car, said she manages her lifestyle by keeping a relatively small radius in her everyday life. “Weve made peace with … being creatures of our neighborhood,” she told me in a Twitter direct message. “When we decided we were going to buy a house here, [we] had a one-mile radius we were willing to live in that we knew was walkable to essentials (groceries, restaurants, bookstore) and bike-able to a lot of other aspects of our lives (friends/parents houses, swimming pool, library).”
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If all that sounds daunting, keep in mind that not owning a car doesnt mean you can never use one again. Car-sharing and rental services like Zipcar, or trips on ride-hail apps, can help you make long trips for work that arent accessible by light rail. These services can be a wonderful tool for making car-free living work, and they can easily be cheaper than buying and maintaining a car. The American Automobile Association <a href="https://newsroom.aaa.com/2022/08/annual-cost-of-new-car-ownership-crosses-10k-mark/">estimates</a> that ownership, insurance, maintenance, gas, and other associated expenses for a car purchased new cost Americans an average of more than $10,000 annually. Not every car-sharing service is available everywhere — Zipcar isnt really an option where I live in Cleveland — but something can be found in most cities.
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Barry Greene, who lives in suburban Richmond, Virginia, and mostly bikes or takes the bus, said he also relies on Uber and Lyft in a pinch. His wife, who does have a car, has been catching on to the benefits: “Shes like, Oh, you can bike there in 20 minutes? Oh, it only cost $12 to get there?’” he said.
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How e-bikes change the game for car-free living
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One of the biggest advantages of going totally car-free is freeing yourself of your ongoing financial relationship with a vehicle, but no matter where you live, itll likely require investing in some gear. I managed without a car when my kids were young in Cleveland by ferrying them (or more accurately <em>dragging</em> them when they werent cooperative) a half-mile to day care or the doctors office on Micro Minis: a brand of easy-to-use, three-wheeled scooters for young children.
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But among all the car-free and car-light people I talked to, by far the most common and important tool cited was the electric bike, or e-bike. E-bikes are especially well-suited for replacing car trips because they allow you to travel farther with much less effort than on a conventional bike, making long distances or hilly terrain less daunting. E-bikes can be pricey, starting in the $500 to $700 range for cheaper models and <a href="https://www.cnet.com/roadshow/news/best-cargo-e-bike/">more than $2,500</a> for cargo e-bikes that are built for hauling kids or groceries. But even on the high end, theyre much less costly than a car.
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Christian Kurpiel-Wakamiya, a single father, lives without a car outside of State College, Pennsylvania, a small college town. State College has its charms, but it isnt Manhattan — getting to the grocery store required a 17-mile round trip. “Right when the pandemic started, I purchased an electric cargo bike, and thats what makes this possible for me,” he said. His now-7-year-old son used to ride along on the back, but hes become such a strong cyclist that he sometimes puts as much as 19 miles on his own bike daily.
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Safety is a major concern — but to address it, we need to start getting out of our cars
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Getting around by foot, bike, or scooter can enable children to have far more independence than idly sitting in a car. But in so much of the US, roads are <a href="https://www.vox.com/23178764/florida-us19-deadliest-pedestrian-fatality-crisis">dangerous</a> for anyone outside a vehicle. “The most difficult part is the abrasive infrastructure around here,” said Kurpiel-Wakamiya. The two wide, high-speed roads that run through downtown State College concern him much more than his sons ability to keep up with long rides. To make cycling in his area safer, hes organized a “bike bus” — a group bike ride to school with his son and about a dozen other kids.
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Unsafe road design may be the single biggest obstacle to car-free mobility in the US. Even in cities like New York, which has made progress on car death rates thanks to major investments in protected bike infrastructure, cyclists and pedestrians still face fatality rates <a href="https://www.itf-oecd.org/sites/default/files/docs/monitoring-progress-urban-road-safety-2022.pdf">many times higher</a> than their peers in Europe. On Clevelands near west side, where I live, short trips by bike or foot sometimes leave me fuming. Even if you can get past the terrifying intersections and seemingly homicidal drivers, youre likely to be greeted by a degrading trudge through an unwalkable parking lot when you arrive at your destination.
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As the author of <a href="https://www.usatoday.com/story/money/cars/2020/09/17/pedestrian-safety-crisis-right-of-way-book-angie-schmitt/5807237002/">a book</a> about the countrys growing pedestrian safety crisis, Im not here to downplay this concern. Car supremacy is so culturally ingrained that pedestrians and cyclists are routinely <a href="https://ggwash.org/view/83983/use-public-health-not-victim-blaming-to-stop-traffic-violence">blamed</a> for being hit by cars, and drivers are <a href="https://www.outsideonline.com/culture/essays-culture/justice-drivers-hit-cyclists/">rarely held legally</a> accountable for it. Black and Native Americans, <a href="https://bmjopen.bmj.com/content/5/11/e008396.full">wheelchair users</a>, and low-income people are <a href="https://smartgrowthamerica.org/dangerous-by-design/">killed by cars</a> at disproportionately high rates. Due to Americans <a href="https://www.vox.com/the-goods/2020/3/11/21152975/crossover-utility-vehicle-honda-cr-v-suv">increasing preference</a> for big cars like SUVs and pickup trucks, among other factors, pedestrian deaths have been soaring — up more than <a href="https://www.governing.com/community/report-shows-the-u-s-must-do-more-to-prevent-pedestrian-deaths">60 percent</a> over the last decade. And car crash deaths <a href="https://www.nhtsa.gov/press-releases/early-estimate-2021-traffic-fatalities">increased</a> during the pandemic, both for people in and outside cars, even as miles driven fell.
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“Ill just get fatigued — not from riding long miles but from how bad the infrastructure is and how hostile drivers can be [to cyclists] sometimes,” said James Holmes, who lives without a car in Charlotte, North Carolina. “Its mentally exhausting and a little depressing.”
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Americas lack of progress on road safety is one reason that people are eschewing car dependence in the first place. Cyclists and car-free city dwellers have been leading voices for better road safety, and those efforts are starting to yield <a href="https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2022-11-25/the-us-cities-where-vision-zero-traffic-safety-fixes-are-working">results</a>. <a href="https://visionzeronetwork.org/about/what-is-vision-zero/">Vision Zero</a>, a movement that aims to achieve zero car crash deaths by prioritizing the safety of people outside cars, has been adopted, at least nominally, by most major American cities. They have a long way to go to actually make a dent in the rate of roadway carnage — but having an organized constituency of people who care about safety is essential to getting there.
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Car-free mobility is a mindset
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We dont have to wait for conditions to be perfect to learn to live without cars — nor should we. As a car-free veteran, Ive come to believe that, more than any single tool or tactic, its helpful to think about navigating the world without a car as a skill that can be learned. Ive ridden the bus since I was a tween, in places where the quality of service has varied widely. Thats helped me become very good at it over time (it doesnt hurt that I have a good sense of direction and am adventurous).
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Learning to navigate public transit can be intimidating; route maps can be overwhelming. If youre used to the relative logistical security of driving — especially in the age of GPS navigation — it takes a good amount of faith to trust the system and yourself to get where you need to go. And in the US, for the most part, we dont have great support systems to help people ease into using transit. The wayfinding tools — like the practically unreadable route maps sometimes posted at bus stops — are made for confident transit riders, not newbies.
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But in my opinion, anyone with access to a transit system should give it a try. If youre new to it, try choosing the route closest to your home, make a simple journey, and expand from there as you become more comfortable. Dont be afraid to ask the bus driver questions. Thats what I did the first time I stepped aboard a bus alone as a kid; he told me where to transfer, and on the return trip, I was already knowledgeable enough to do it on my own.
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Biking confidently alongside cars is a learned skill as well. Seeing my friends do it, especially other women, made it less daunting for me. “Stay out of the door zone,” the area alongside parked cars where people throwing open their doors can clip you, they told me. And “watch for right hooks,” or right-turning drivers who might not see you crossing a road. I learned other things mostly intuitively as I went, based on what felt safest to me, by starting on lower-traffic streets and graduating to more congested locations.
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Still, not everyone wants to turn their daily commute into a game of Frogger, and these dangers are symptoms of a dysfunctional transportation system that often makes carlessness a hardship — and occasionally dangerous, too.
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You also have to get used to being the commuting exception, which can sometimes mean blank stares and weird remarks. Two years ago, Sam Zilberstein, a graphic designer who lives in an outer suburb of Miami, started doing a combined bike, bus, and rail commute into the city. He loves it — fighting the north Miami traffic every day was making him miserable, and he says hes now happier and healthier. But his co-workers cant figure it out. “My office is right next to the metro, but no one there uses it but me,” he said. Theyre “confused about my multi-modal commute … or theyre concerned about the safety of the Metrorail.”
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It takes a high level of individuality (and stubbornness, perhaps) to choose this, given all the structural obstacles. During part of the year — January and February especially — it can be particularly tough for me in Cleveland. Pushing a stroller down the middle of a road because the sidewalks are impassable from snow will make anyone a little ragey. These are problems that have to be solved at societal and policy levels if we ever want car-free life to be embraced by a significant swath of Americans.
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But by choosing a car-free or car-light life, you can play a part in effecting that kind of change from the bottom up, which builds pressure for better transportation policy from the top down. For many people I spoke with, not driving engenders a strong sense of pride and satisfaction, of building a better world. “Im trying to advocate for what I believe is a better future,” Kurpiel-Wakamiya said. “I want [my son] and my daughter, too, to have a good example of tenacity … and instill in them that confidence” to make choices that might be countercultural.
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As more people have explored alternative modes of transportation, cities have started recognizing that car-dependent design is bad for their residents, and have begun building better <a href="https://usa.streetsblog.org/2022/02/11/why-us-cities-are-investing-in-safer-more-connected-cycling-infrastructure/">amenities</a> for bikes and pedestrians. These are small steps, but a single piece of good infrastructure can make a world of difference: Cleveland has built a beautiful bike trail network over the past decade, for example, which has improved my quality of life dramatically. Its gotten less lonely, too, to advocate for things like bike lanes and paths in Cleveland, as better infrastructure attracts more users.
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“Weve finally got a critical mass of people that care about living in the city without relying on cars,” said Alex Ip, a student based in Atlanta who uses the citys passable bus and rail system. “Now the hard part is to translate that into demanding state and regional and local officials to do the work that residents want.”
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At its best, local government reflects the interests of the people who live there; not having a car can push you to be a little more civically engaged — and, in turn, push your leaders to make life better for non-drivers. If youre already the kind of person who leaves the car sitting in the driveway a few days a week, getting rid of it will compel you to make a few more difficult trips by bus or bike than you otherwise would. Itll also involve you in a struggle thats bigger than your own needs — to build a more accessible and balanced transportation system for everyone.
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<em>Angie Schmitt is a writer and urban planner based in Cleveland. Her book, </em><a href="https://islandpress.org/books/right-way">Right of Way: Race, Class, and the Silent Epidemic of Pedestrian Deaths in America</a><em>, was published in 2020 by Island Press.</em>
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Periods of difficulty can impact anyone in life, no matter how put-together they might seem. When the inevitable happens — your friends sudden loss of a parent, your cousins unexpected layoff — it can sometimes feel awkward or difficult to bridge the gap and figure out how to offer help. However, the people most likely to provide a helping hand are often hesitant out of a fear they might say or do the wrong thing or are perplexed by what their hurting loved one even needs, says family grief counselor <a href="https://www.jillgriefcounselor.com/">Jill Cohen</a>. “A lot of times people think, Everyone is bringing dinner, so I wont,’” she says. “The truth is, if everyones thinking like that, its quite possible that no ones doing it.”
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Receiving positive social support is crucial to the human experience. Having people to lean on — and vice versa — can <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2921311/">increase resilience to stress and blunt the effects of trauma and depression</a>. Dont let a concern for bungling your words or offering a potentially tone-deaf favor prevent you from showing up for your people. Heres some advice on how to reach out and offer assistance to a loved one going through a difficult time.
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Initiate a conversation with open-ended statements
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Among the most helpful ways to support someone experiencing hardship is simply being available, says <a href="https://faculty.sites.uci.edu/rsilver/">Roxane Cohen Silver</a>, a distinguished professor of psychological science, public health, and medicine at the University of California Irvine. In her work studying reactions to personal trauma, Silver and her colleagues have found making a phone call and offering to visit are the simplest and most impactful forms of service.
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What to say in those initial calls or texts? Cohen suggests, “How are you feeling today?” Because the inquiry is so open-ended, your loved one can answer honestly and as in-depth as theyd like. Questions that are too direct like, “Did you have a good day?” can seem cliché. “We dont expect when someone is in crisis that theyre going to have a good day,” Cohen says.
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“Im thinking of you,” “You crossed my mind today,” and “Im just checking in” are also helpful entry points, says licensed marriage and family therapist <a href="https://kiaundrajackson.com/">Kiaundra Jackson</a>. These sentiments are quick, but not unfeeling, dont require a response, and show your loved one youre available should they choose to engage.
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Consider the closeness of the relationship when weighing what to say and how to deliver the message. A best friend or a sibling grieving the death of a pet may warrant a face-to-face conversation while a text should suffice for a coworker going through a breakup. If you dont typically make phone calls, it may take the other person by surprise if youre suddenly calling them; stay consistent with your typical method of communication.
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Open-ended statements and questions like, “Im here if you need anything,” “How can I help?” or, “What do you need?” are too broad. Asking someone whos upset or grieving what they need puts the onus on them to help you feel useful.
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Validate their feelings, dont minimize them
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Whether the anniversary of a death in your friends family is nearing or they posted something vaguely emotional on social media, <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2020/07/28/smarter-living/coronavirus-how-to-check-in-with-a-friend.html">be transparent</a> with why youre reaching out. You can text something like, “Im just checking in on you,” Jackson says.
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Always <a href="https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2023-25236-001">validate</a> their emotions by showing you understand what theyre feeling and never question their emotions or reactions, says <a href="https://raziasahi.com/index.html">Razia Sahi,</a> a doctoral researcher at UCLA who studies the effects of social support on emotion and well-being. Done effectively, validation “can deepen your connection to that person and their feelings of comfort in their moments of distress,” she says.
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Helpful phrases of validation include:
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That really sucks.
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I hear you.
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I imagine that was difficult for you.
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While well-intentioned, people are prone to minimizing others difficult experiences, making them feel like what theyre experiencing isnt significant or their reaction isnt appropriate. Those who revert to minimizing statements likely arent intending to be callous or cruel, but these platitudes can brush away the depth of pain for the person on the receiving end. Here are some minimizing phrases to avoid:
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Ive been there.
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Just snap out of it.
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Cheer up.
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Everything happens for a reason.
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It could be worse.
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Follow their lead when offering support
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It may be difficult to decide whether your friend who just got laid off wants emotional support or tangible aid, like career coaching or a gift card for takeout. Try to avoid acting on impulses you think would be helpful to you if you were in your loved ones shoes. Instead, look at their responses for cues about how to proceed. If, after your initial “Thinking of you” text they respond with “Thank you,” theres no need to do anything more, Silver says. “Its important to be a listener and to be conscious of what messages the other person is giving,” Silver says, “and not to impose your own desires and expectations onto anybody else.”
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How have they accepted and shown support in the past? This can be a sign of the types of aid they find helpful, Jackson says. Do gifts tend to brighten their day? Or are they the type of friend who is comforted by a deep conversation? Look to the ways they showed up for you when you were going through a tough time, Sahi says. If they suggested taking you out for happy hour and venting, this is a sign they might appreciate the same in return.
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Consider the context of their life, too, says Nikki Lovell, the chief executive of <a href="https://www.gathermycrew.org.au/">Gather My Crew</a>, an Australia-based app for coordinating assistance for loved ones in need. Do they live alone? Have kids or pets? Do they have a lot of medical appointments to attend? “You can make a specific offer to help that makes it clear to them that you have thought about this,” Lovell says, “and you are genuine in your desire to help.” For a parent caring for a sick partner, you might offer to make their kids school lunches or send a gift card for a meal delivery service. If you know a relative prefers to be alone in times of distress, showing up at their house with snacks may be too intrusive.
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Provide realistic options for assistance
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If your loved one is responsive and seems amenable to help, give them a few choices for how you can support them. Be direct and specific when offering a hand, Cohen says. Some suggestions:
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Do you need help cleaning?
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Want to go to a cafe and work on our resumes?
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Can I treat you to a massage?
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Is it alright if I handle bedtime with your kids this week?
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Would you be up for seeing a movie next week?
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Id be happy to make you dinner tomorrow. Is that something youd be interested in?
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Be realistic in what you can provide, Sahi says. “We all have different capacities at different moments,” she says. You may be well-intentioned in offering to call your friend every night for a month, but this commitment may not fit with your schedule, so make sure to only put forth aid you can deliver.
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Another helpful supportive tool, Sahi says, is reappraisal, or to use problem-solving techniques. However, the more distressed someone is, the less likely they will be comfortable with reappraisal, Sahi says. For example, helping someone brainstorm ways to move on after a death probably wont go over well; suggesting a mock interview with a friend who recently lost a job is a more appropriate use of reappraisal.
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In one of <a href="https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2023-25236-001">Sahis studies</a>, participants were comforted by statements that focused on how things change over time. It may be helpful to tell a loved one that how theyre feeling now wont be how theyll feel forever. But again, only utilize reappraisal if your friend is open to advice or strategizing.
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Dont force yourself on someone who turns down your bids, but follow up in the future
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Inevitably, someone may graciously turn down your offers to assist. Maybe theyre not ready to face outsiders, perhaps they arent in need of what you can contribute. Dont take it personally; your loved one isnt insulting you, theyre likely still processing. Avoid making repeated proffers too soon, Silver says, but continue to check in after about a week with a simple “Thinking of you” text. Again, follow their lead and keep showing up.
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“To be a support provider,” Silver says, “its both reaching out but also taking the signals as to what the person needs on their timeline, not on your timeline.”
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<li><strong>What Michigan Democrats will do now that they control a key swing state</strong> -
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Michigan Democrats are going big and bold on abortion and unions with their new trifecta.
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Michigan Democrats shocked the nation in November when they won control of both chambers of the state legislature for the first time in nearly 40 years. Now that the legislative session has started, theyre acting swiftly and aggressively on issues ranging from abortion to strengthening unions.
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In doing so, theyre laying the groundwork to preserve those delicate majorities in 2024, when Michigan will be a key national battleground. The GOP has long dominated state governments, controlling <a href="https://www.quorum.us/data-driven-insights/state-legislature-partisan-composition/">57 of 98 partisan legislative chambers</a> across the US. Democrats had some major state wins in 2022, including in Pennsylvania and Michigan. If Michigan Democrats can repeat their success in 2024, theyll have made a strong case for more national Democratic investment in state legislative contests.
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For now, Democratic Gov. Gretchen Whitmer and Democratic legislators seem to be on the same page as they begin work on advancing the agenda she laid out in her recent <a href="https://www.freep.com/story/news/politics/2023/01/26/whitmers-state-address-2023-transcript/69840922007/">state of the state address</a>. Binding Michigans Democrats together is their shared excitement at the prospect of enacting proposals that previously would not have even been entertained for a hearing in committee, let alone a vote.
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“There is a lot of pent-up Democratic energy to be able to get things through without obstruction,” said Democratic state Sen. Kristen McDonald Rivet, who won a tossup race last year.
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Though Whitmer and Democratic legislators have signaled a willingness to work with Republicans, they havent appeared too concerned with making overtures to the other side so far. Some legislators who won tough races last year say that they think acting on a bipartisan basis where possible is essential to retaining their majorities in 2024. But others say that delivering results, with or without Republicans, and ensuring they have a record they can run on next year is more important.
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“I say this as somebody in a marginal swing seat: go bold, show up for people, put in the work, and I believe that the voters will respect and reward that,” said Democratic state Rep. Betsy Coffia.
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Michigan Democrats have been bold out of the gate
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In the first weeks since the start of the legislative session, Democrats have already made progress on some of their priorities. In the next two years, they hope to shore up abortion rights, expand LGBTQ rights, implement stricter gun safety measures, take aggressive climate action, institute free universal preschool, and reverse policies like a “right to work” law that hurt union membership and was previously implemented by the Michigan GOP.
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They have the numbers to do so, with a 20-18 majority in the state senate and a 56-54 majority in the state house — so long as their caucus stays unified, and thats been the case so far. At the moment, the biggest question seems to be when any new laws will take effect. In order for bills to be effective immediately, they need at least a two-thirds majority of each chamber to approve them, which would require at least some Republican support. Otherwise, bills will only take effect 90 days after the end of the legislative session.
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There could be opportunities for bipartisan action. Whitmer signed <a href="https://www.michigancapitolconfidential.com/news/in-michigan-the-lame-duck-wont-quack">roughly 1,000 bills </a>during her first term when the GOP controlled the legislature, even though she vetoed <a href="https://www.mlive.com/public-interest/2022/03/whitmer-has-vetoed-more-bills-per-year-than-any-michigan-governor-since-1953.html">more bills than any Michigan governor since 1953</a>.
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The economy could be one such area for compromise. So far, Democrats have reached an agreement with the governor on an <a href="https://www.bridgemi.com/michigan-government/tax-rebates-planned-gretchen-whitmer-democrats-part-relief-package">economic package</a> that includes $180 “inflation relief checks” for taxpayers, a repeal of the states 4.25 percent tax on retirement income, and an expansion of the states Earned Income Tax Credit, allowing roughly 700,000 low-income workers to claim a state tax credit of 30 percent of the federal amount starting this year, up from 6 percent.
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Theres broad support for elements of the proposal given that the state is sitting on a $9 billion budget surplus. But while some Republicans have supported repealing the retirement income tax and expanding the Earned Income Tax Credit, theyve expressed concern about issuing relief checks in lieu of a potential cut to the states personal income tax and came out against Democrats proposal on Wednesday.
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Democrats are preparing to go it alone on abortion access, however. Theyve introduced a <a href="https://www.legislature.mi.gov/(S(bs204uutrhgtskf4ckp3gkan))/mileg.aspx?page=GetObject&amp;objectname=2023-HB-4006">bill</a> to repeal the states ultra-restrictive 1931 abortion ban, which has no exceptions for rape or incest. Republicans had sought to enforce that ban after the US Supreme Court overturned <em>Roe v. Wade </em>last year and went to court to defend it. But after Michiganders approved a ballot measure in November that codified abortion rights in the state constitution, the law was already effectively dead. Democrats bill would deliver the final blow in striking it from the books.
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They have also introduced a <a href="https://www.legislature.mi.gov/(S(mcgwwz4bmuuzc0dmzcryn05v))/mileg.aspx?page=GetObject&amp;objectname=2023-SB-0002">bill</a> that would repeal a 1931 ban on contraception and abortion pills. Though Republicans had not signaled that they intended to enforce that ban, Democrats are trying to foreclose any such possibility.
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Codifying a 2022 Michigan Supreme Court decision, Democrats have introduced a <a href="http://legislature.mi.gov/documents/2023-2024/billanalysis/Senate/pdf/2023-SFA-0004-G.pdf">bill</a> that bans discrimination based on sexual orientation or gender identity or expression. At least <a href="https://www.bridgemi.com/michigan-government/michigan-democrats-seek-codify-lgbtq-civil-rights-protections">21 other states</a> and Washington, DC have similar laws.
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Theyre also eyeing legislation to <a href="https://www.mlive.com/public-interest/2023/01/3-big-election-priorities-outlined-by-democratic-lawmakers-michigan-sos-benson.html?link_id=10&amp;can_id=7226560220622bd9228c9a89c687a5b0&amp;source=email-dlcc-uplifts-state-democratic-achievements-ahead-of-biden-state-of-the-union-address-to-gridlocked-congress&amp;email_referrer=email_1809206&amp;email_subject=dlcc-uplifts-state-democratic-achievements-ahead-of-biden-state-of-the-union-address-to-gridlocked-congress">protect poll workers and combat election misinformation</a> and to reinstate the requirement that state construction contractors <a href="https://www.detroitnews.com/story/news/local/michigan/2018/06/05/prevailing-wage-repeal-plan-vote/674973002/">pay union wages and benefits</a> after the GOP repealed it in 2018.
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Guns and unions may test Michigan Democrats unity
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Upcoming battles over gun safety measures and repealing the states “right to work” law, which allows workers to reap union benefits without paying union dues, might prove to be some of the thorniest challenges for Democrats, said Bill Ballenger, a political commentator based in Michigan and former Republican state legislator.
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Whitmer has called on the legislature to implement what she called “common sense” gun reforms, including universal background checks, mandatory waiting periods, safe storage laws, and red flag laws, which aims to temporarily prevent people who pose a danger to themselves or others from having firearms.
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Michiganders have shown widespread support for <a href="https://www.mafp.com/news/miaap-poll-shows-support-for-red-flag-gun-laws">many</a> of <a href="https://www.wlns.com/skubick/poll-reveals-majority-of-michiganders-support-gun-control/">those</a> policies in public opinion polling. A <a href="https://www.wlns.com/skubick/poll-reveals-majority-of-michiganders-support-gun-control/">majority</a> of Michiganders go even further than what Whitmer has proposed, supporting a ban on assault weapons, a limit on the size of gun magazines, and a ban on guns in schools. But some Democrats who won tight contests last year appear reluctant to go too far in a state where <a href="https://wisevoter.com/state-rankings/gun-ownership-by-state/">nearly 40 percent of residents</a> own a gun.
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“If Democrats tried to do more on gun control and it looks draconian, some of these legislators might desert the cause,” Ballenger said.
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Republicans and business groups in Michigan are also already campaigning against Democrats stated goal of repealing the states “right to work” law, <a href="https://michiganadvance.com/2023/02/04/rick-hagland-why-repealing-right-to-work-is-unlikely-to-hurt-michigans-economy/">arguing</a> with scant evidence that doing so will hamper economic development and make it harder for Michigan to compete for business investment.
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Signed in 2012 by then-Republican Gov. Rick Snyder amid protests at the state capitol, the law exempts workers from union dues even when theyre covered by a union contract, which Democrats <a href="https://www.bridgemi.com/business-watch/right-work-battle-looms-michigan-businesses-fear-repeal-democrats">argue</a> has lowered union membership and undercut wages and benefits.
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Its not clear whether the GOPs campaign against it has scared off any members of the Democratic caucus yet, but they cant afford more than a single defection in the state house, and it could bring up internal divisions in the party, Ballenger said.
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Overwhelmingly, however, the vibe in the caucus is hopeful for the first time in a long time. Coffia noted that there hadnt been a Democratic trifecta in Michigan since she was 5 years old and consequently there was “a lot of damage that was done that we need to undo.” McDonald Rivet said that, since the session started, her Democratic colleagues are constantly putting in bill requests and passing them around caucus rooms to get cosigners in an effort to move quickly.
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“I think the excitement is really holding us all together. Were all committed to making sure we all continue to work well together,” said Democratic state Sen. Veronica Klinefelt, who won a tossup race last year.
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Can Michigan Democrats hold onto their majorities?
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Its still early days in the legislative session, but the Democratic Legislative Campaign Committee, the fundraising arm of the Democratic Party dedicated to state legislative races, and other outside funders have <a href="https://www.vox.com/policy-and-politics/23502391/democrats-state-legislatures-michigan-pennyslvania-minnesota">already identified</a> preserving Democratic majorities in the Michigan legislature as a top priority heading into 2024.
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There are differing philosophies on how to achieve that. Whitmer and many Democrats seem to feel that this is a moment to be bold and not waste any time in racking up accomplishments — and that has so far meant abandoning any illusions of bipartisanship.
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During her state of the state speech, Whitmer said she hoped to work with Republicans, including on <a href="https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/politics-news/gov-whitmer-democrats-flex-new-power-michigan-rcna67565">her universal preschool plan</a>. But state Senate GOP leader Aric Nesbitt <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d61Om0OnLhQ">dismissed those comments</a> as lip service in a response video, and so far, his assessment has been accurate. Practically all of the legislative progress that Democrats can boast so far has been rammed through with their majorities.
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“When we get right down to it, Whitmer is not looking for bipartisan support,” Ballenger said. “Whether this backfires and some of these Democrats who won in very iffy swing marginal districts can withstand the blowback in 2024 remains to be seen.”
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Some Democrats, though comfortable with the progress that has been made so far, are counseling caution going forward.
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“We want to move thoughtfully and not just throw everything at the wall,” Klinefelt said. “I think were all on the same page that weve got a couple of years here to get some things done. Lets not try to rush into everything. Lets take our time and make sure we get things right.”
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McDonald Rivet also urged her colleagues not to play political games and make efforts to reach across the aisle if they want to stay in power. She acknowledged that they might not be able to do that on the state budget or on right to work, but said shes already working with Republican colleagues to help communities affected by flooding and to bring grocery stores to a food desert.
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“My voters dont care who is in the majority. What they care about is whether or not they have high-wage jobs, whether were working on the childcare problem, whether or not the schools are strong,” she said.
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<h1 data-aos="fade-right" id="from-the-hindu-sports">From The Hindu: Sports</h1>
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<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Ranji Trophy semifinal | Agarwal hits double ton to give Karnataka edge over Saurashtra</strong> - In reply, Saurashtra scored 76 for 2 in 30 overs at the close of play, still trailing Karnataka by 331 runs with three days play remaining in the match</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>A future European Super League could have 80 football clubs: A22 CEO</strong> - A22, a company formed to sponsor and assist in the creation of a breakaway football league, said there were 10 principles that emerged from the discussions, including improving competitiveness, financial sustainability, and fan experience</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>A very proud moment for Bharat and Andhra: MSK</strong> - The long wait has diminished neither his passion nor commitment, says former national senior selection committee chairman</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Womens T20 World Cup | Australia aims for record-extending sixth trophy, Harmanpreets India to chase maiden title</strong> - India have been clubbed alongside England, Pakistan, West Indies and Ireland in Group B.</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Rule changes: IPL can take a leaf out of SA20, feels Kevin Pietersen</strong> - Pietersen has emerged as a huge advocate of the changes the SA20 has brought about, like allowing each captain the liberty to nominate 13 players to take the field</p></li>
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<h1 data-aos="fade-right" id="from-the-hindu-national-news">From The Hindu: National News</h1>
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<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Literacy prerak commits suicide</strong> -</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>DCs urged to stop politicians from offering gifts to voters ahead of elections</strong> -</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Christopher movie review: Mammoottys film is a long, poorly-scripted celebration of encounter killings</strong> - What the film lacks in substance, it seeks to make up for in Mammoottys swagger and a loud background score that numbs one with its repetitiveness</p></li>
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<h1 data-aos="fade-right" id="from-bbc-europe">From BBC: Europe</h1>
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<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Turkey quake: President Erdogan accepts some problems with response</strong> - Recep Tayyip Erdogan defends the governments response as Syria struggles to get much needed aid.</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Turkey and Syria earthquake: Bodies found in search for volleyball team</strong> - A school group of 39 people were in a hotel in southern Turkey when the building collapsed.</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Ukraine war: Zelensky takes fighter jet bid to EU leaders</strong> - After convincing the West to supply tanks, Ukraines president is now on a mission to get aircraft.</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Roger Waters: Pink Floyd stars UN speech criticised by Ukraine</strong> - Roger Waters tells the United Nations Security Council that Russias invasion was “not unprovoked”.</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Ukraine war: Elon Musks SpaceX firm bars Kyiv from using Starlink tech for drone control</strong> - The firm says it has limited Kyivs ability to use its Starlink satellite internet for military ends.</p></li>
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<h1 data-aos="fade-right" id="from-ars-technica">From Ars Technica</h1>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Nintendo Direct gives us Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom details, Metroid, and more</strong> - Also: <em>Samba de Amigo</em>, a <em>Castlevania Dead Cells</em>, <em>Advance Wars</em>, and <em>Pikmin 4</em>. - <a href="https://arstechnica.com/?p=1916269">link</a></p></li>
<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Twitter experiencing international outages; most users cant tweet or DM</strong> - Musk pausing Twitter feature updates amid global outage, report says. - <a href="https://arstechnica.com/?p=1916302">link</a></p></li>
<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Microsoft Teams Free data wont transfer over to Microsoft Teams (free)</strong> - $4-per-user-per-month Essentials tier is the only way to keep your stuff. - <a href="https://arstechnica.com/?p=1916190">link</a></p></li>
<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>In Paris demo, Google scrambles to counter ChatGPT but ends up embarrassing itself</strong> - So far, the expected Microsoft-Google AI war has turned into an AI fizzle. - <a href="https://arstechnica.com/?p=1915978">link</a></p></li>
<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Dwarf planet hosts a ring thats unexpectedly far from the planet</strong> - At that distance, the ring should condense into a moon. Why hasnt it? - <a href="https://arstechnica.com/?p=1916169">link</a></p></li>
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If I lose 100lbs and find out Ive had a 12” dick all this time, Im gonna be pissed.
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constanTEEN
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They did unspeakable things.
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Piiig
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The barman looks at him and says, “Hang on! Youre a duck.”
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“I see your eyes are working,” replies the duck.
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“And you can talk!” exclaims the barman.
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“I see your ears are working, too,” says the duck. “Now if you dont mind, can I have my beer and my sandwich please?”
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“Certainly, sorry about that,” says the barman as he pulls the ducks pint. “Its just we dont get many ducks in this pub. What are you doing round this way?”
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“Im working on the building site across the road,” explains the duck. “Im a plasterer.”
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The flabbergasted barman cannot believe the duck and wants to learn more, but takes the hint when the duck pulls out a newspaper from his bag and proceeds to read it.
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So, the duck reads his paper, drinks his beer, eats his sandwich, bids the barman good day and leaves.
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The same thing happens for two weeks. Then one day the circus comes to town.
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The ringmaster comes into the pub for a pint and the barman says to him “Youre with the circus, arent you? Well, I know this duck that could be just brilliant in your circus. He talks, drinks beer, eats sandwiches, reads the newspaper, and everything !”
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“Sounds marvelous,” says the ringmaster, handing over his business card. “Get him to give me a call.”
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So the next day when the duck comes into the pub the barman says, “Hey Mr. Duck, I reckon I can line you up with a top job, paying really good money.”
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“Im always looking for the next job,” says the duck. “Where is it ?”
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“At the circus,” says the barman.
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“The circus?” repeats the duck.
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“Thats right,” replies the barman.
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“The circus?” the duck asks again. “That place with the big tent?”
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“Yeah,” the barman replies.
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“With all the animals who live in cages, and performers who live in caravans?” says the duck.
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Of course," the barman replies.
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“And the tent has canvas sides and a big canvas roof with a hole in the middle?” persists the duck.
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“Thats right!” says the barman.
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The duck shakes his head in amazement and says…
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“What the f*** would they want with a plasterer???”.
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