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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Colorados Top Court Kicked Trump Off the Ballot. Will the Supreme Court Agree?</strong> - A legal scholar analyzes how the nine Justices are likely to view the blockbuster decision. - <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/news/q-and-a/colorados-top-court-kicked-trump-off-the-ballot-will-the-supreme-court-agree">link</a></p></li>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>When Americans Are the Threat at the Border</strong> - Many people charged with trafficking in Tucson are U.S. citizens, suffering from the same problems of poverty and addiction that plague the rest of the country. - <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/news/daily-comment/when-americans-are-the-threat-at-the-border">link</a></p></li>
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<li><strong>How death threats get Republicans to fall in line behind Trump</strong> -
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The insidious way violence is changing American politics — and shaping the 2024 election.
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Stephen Richer should have been safe.
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In early 2021, Richer was an Arizona Republican official who regularly attended local party events. At the time, he was the newly elected county recorder of Maricopa County. The job was a new level of prominence — he was now the most important election supervisory official in the states largest county — but going to Arizona Republican events was routine: the kind of thing that Richer, like any state politician, had done hundreds of times before.
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But at one event, the crowd heckled and harassed him. When he tried to leave, they dragged him back in, yanking on his arms and shoulders, to berate him about the allegedly stolen <a href="https://www.vox.com/2020-presidential-election">2020 election</a>. He started to worry: Would his own people, fellow Republican Party members, seriously hurt him?
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Maricopa County recorder Stephen Richer speaks to reporters during a news conference at the Maricopa County Tabulation and Election Center on November 10, 2022, in Phoenix, Arizona.
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There was a clear reason for the madness. Many of the Republican faithful had recently decided that Maricopa County had been the epicenter of “the steal,” <a href="https://www.vox.com/joe-biden">Joe Biden</a>s theft of Arizona from <a href="https://www.vox.com/donald-trump">Donald Trump</a> — and the entire presidential election with it. This wasnt true, obviously. Richer tried to tell them it wasnt true, hoping his long track record in the state Republican party would give him some credibility.
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It did not. What happened instead reveals a pattern that is quietly reshaping American politics: Across the board and around the country, data reveals that threats against public officials have risen to unprecedented numbers — to the point where <a href="https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/4357594-majority-concerned-about-political-violence-threat-survey/">83 percent of Americans</a> are now concerned about risks of political violence in their country. The threats are coming from across the political spectrum, but the most important ones in this regard emanate from the MAGA faithful.
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Trumps most fanatical followers have created a situation where challenging him carries not only political risks but also personal ones. Elected officials who dare defy the former president face serious threats to their well-being and to that of their families — raising the cost of taking an already difficult stand.
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As a result, the threat of violence is now a part of the American political system, to the point where Republican officials are — by their own admissions — changing the way they behave because they fear it. For Richer, the price back in 2021 was high — and enough to prevent him from safely participating in his own partys politics.
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The more he tried to convince people that the 2020 results were legitimate, the more hostile the audience became — and <a href="https://www.azmirror.com/2022/08/04/how-stephen-richer-endures-a-job-thats-psychologically-unfun/">not just at this one event</a>. He recalls people at Republican meetings getting in his face, grabbing him, and even banging on his car windshield in the parking lot. Richer kept attending party meetings for three months, hoping that the attendees behavior would go back to normal.
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But they didnt. The once-friendly events were emotionally exhausting — and, worse, potentially even dangerous.
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“I was a Republican activist. Thats what you do: show up to events,” Richer recalls. But eventually, “you dont feel comfortable.”
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By 2022, when Richer was presiding over the November elections ballot tally, his office was fortified like a military base: surrounded by armed police deployed to protect him and his staff from threats. He recalls numerous staff members quitting on the spot after heated confrontations — and he was personally targeted by credible threats. When we spoke, he was about to testify in one of three federal cases against people who had vowed to kill him.
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“You need to do your fucking job right because other people from other states are watching your ass,” the man <a href="https://www.justice.gov/opa/press-release/file/1526911/download?utm_medium=email&amp;utm_source=govdelivery">allegedly said in a voicemail</a>. “You fucking renege on this deal or give them any more troubles, your ass will never make it to your next little board meeting.”
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Its been well over two years since Richer attended the kinds of Arizona GOP grassroots events where he was once welcome. Today, the institutional Arizona Republican party is dominated by politicians who have embraced Trumps lies about the election — people like Kari Lake, Blake Masters, and Mark Finchem. The harassment and threats from the MAGA faithful was one weapon in the extremist takeovers arsenal, working to push voices of sanity out of key party events — breaking even determined ones like Richer.
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In Arizona, the Trumpist threat of violence <em>worked</em>. And it worked for reasons that should worry all of us at the beginning of an election year that could decide the fate of American democracy.
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A woman points at Maricopa County Recorder Stephen Richer during the Maricopa County Board of Supervisors general election canvass meeting on November 28, 2022, in Phoenix.
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Brave Republicans at all levels of government, from local officials like Richer to Sen. Mitt Romney (UT), have been warning us of the dangers going into 2024. They have seen the recent rise in right-wing political violence, most notably on January 6, and seen how comfortable Trump is with openly directing his supporters to hurt people.
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“Violence and threats against elected leaders are suppressing the emergence of a pro-democracy faction of the GOP,” <a href="https://ceipfiles.s3.amazonaws.com/pdf/Political+Violence+the+2022+Midterm+Elections.pdf?v=2">writes</a> <a href="https://carnegieendowment.org/experts/699">Rachel Kleinfeld</a>, an expert on political violence at the Carnegie Endowment for International Peace. Absent threats, Kleinfeld argues, a move to Trump from inside the party — perhaps <a href="https://www.vox.com/23979441/nikki-haley-afp-koch-republican-billionaire-trump">a more serious challenge</a> in the presidential primary — might have had a better chance of getting off the ground.
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In her paper, Kleinfeld notes a striking example of this effect at work — a comment by Kim Ward, the Trump-supporting Republican leader of the Pennsylvania state Senate, on what would happen if she spoke out against the former president.
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“Id get my house bombed tonight,” <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2020/12/09/us/politics/trump-pennsylvania-electoral-college.html">Ward said</a>.
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Our politics have gotten more violent
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Bob Inglis, a South Carolina Congressman for 12 years who left office in 2011, remembers getting in some fairly bitter brawls with his Democratic rivals. In his later years as a Congress member, after making a more moderate turn, he recalled receiving some real vitriol from the base — even facing a crowd in his hometown that seemed so volatile that he refused to introduce his family on stage.
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But that was the exception, not the rule.
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“Now,” Inglis says, “members of Congress face that [level of hostility] routinely.”
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In 2016, the Capitol Police recorded <a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2023/09/18/congress-security-spending-violence-threats/">fewer than 900 threats</a> against members of Congress. In 2017, that figure more than quadrupled, per data provided by the Capitol Police.
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The numbers continued to increase in every year of the Trump presidency, peaking at 9,700 in 2021. In 2022, the first full year of Bidens term, the numbers went down to a still-high 7,500. The 2023 data has not yet been released, but a spike in threats against legislators during <a href="https://www.axios.com/2023/10/20/house-republicans-death-threats-jim-jordan">the House Republican speaker fight</a> and <a href="https://www.axios.com/2023/11/17/israel-hamas-war-protests-threats-palestinian-threats-congress">Israel-Hamas conflict</a> suggests an increase over the 2022 numbers is plausible.
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Members of Congress are taking these threats seriously. In September, three journalists at the Washington Post reviewed FEC filings to assess how much candidates for the House and Senate were spending on security. They found an <a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2023/09/18/congress-security-spending-violence-threats/">overall increase of 500 percent between 2020 and 2022</a>.
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The death threats arent just directed at politicians in Washington. Data has shown extraordinary levels of threats against <a href="https://mayorsinnovation.org/2022/05/11/an-assault-on-local-democracy/">mayors</a>,<a href="https://time.com/6227754/political-violence-us-states-midterms-2022/"> federal judges</a>,<a href="https://www.reuters.com/legal/government/reuters-unmasks-trump-supporters-terrifying-us-election-workers-2021-11-09/"> election administrators</a>,<a href="https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/70/wr/mm7026e1.htm"> public health officials</a>, and even <a href="https://bridgingdivides.princeton.edu/sites/g/files/toruqf246/files/documents/Threats%20and%20Harassment%20Report.pdf">school board members</a>. Its hard to know how large the increase is for many of these local positions because no one has been keeping records for all that long. In the past, there was simply no need.
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“Its not even accurate to say [threatening election workers] was rare prior to 2020. It was so rare as to be virtually nonexistent,” <a href="https://electioninnovation.org/team/david-becker/">David Becker</a>, executive director of the Center for Election Innovation &amp; Research, <a href="https://www.vox.com/22774745/death-threats-election-workers-public-health-school">told me in 2021</a>. “This is beyond anything that weve ever seen.”
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While this level of threat is unfamiliar in modern America, political violence is far from unprecedented in the long arc of the countrys history. Weve seen a civil war, the assassinations of multiple presidents, <a href="https://www.senate.gov/artandhistory/history/minute/The_Caning_of_Senator_Charles_Sumner.htm">and a senator beaten unconscious on the Senate floor</a>
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“American politics has always been violent. The question is how violent,” says <a href="https://history.yale.edu/people/joanne-freeman">Joanne Freeman</a>, a historian at Yale and author of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Field-Blood-Violence-Congress-Civil/dp/0374154775">a book on violence in Congress</a> before the Civil War.
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Freeman and other scholars see rising political violence as a reflection of deeper political tensions. Research suggests it tends to be perpetrated by angry, aggressive people with poor impulse control. Systematic increases in violent threats would thus happen at moments of heightened political emotion — meaning those times when the stakes of politics seem especially high and personal.
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Thats clearly the case now.
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Some of the recent increase in American violence (both political and otherwise) <a href="https://www.voanews.com/a/why-homicide-rates-spiked-30-during-the-pandemic-/6420391.html">might be attributable to the pandemic</a>. But the spike in threats began well before <a href="https://www.vox.com/coronavirus-covid19">Covid-19</a>. Something else is going on — something thats raising the temperature of American politics, making people feel more angry, afraid, and feeling like they need to take political matters into their own hands.
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That “something” is Donald Trump. No figure in American politics commands Trumps devoted following; no figure is as capable of heightening the stakes of American politics to the breaking point.
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President Donald Trump speaks during a rally protesting the electoral college certification of Joe Biden as President in Washington on January 6, 2021.
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Trumps hardcore base is motivated by social grievances that are known to give rise to violence. Political scientists have repeatedly found that <a href="https://www.google.com/books/edition/Understanding_Ethnic_Violence/eAGHrPd3lEwC?hl=en&amp;gbpv=1&amp;dq=roger+peterson+resentment+ethnic+conflict&amp;pg=PA37&amp;printsec=frontcover&amp;bshm=rime/1#v=onepage&amp;q=&amp;f=false">ethnic violence</a> is <a href="http://journals.cambridge.org/action/displayAbstract?fromPage=online&amp;aid=6866152&amp;fileId=S0043887109990219">particularly likely</a> when a privileged portion of society sees power slipping into the hands of a group that hadnt previously held it — as has been happening in the United States for years. A backlash to social change is probably the single biggest reason behind both Trumps political rise and the rash of white supremacist terrorism <a href="https://www.vox.com/policy-and-politics/2019/8/6/20754828/el-paso-shooting-white-supremacy-rise">starting in the late 2010s</a>, like the <a href="https://www.vox.com/the-highlight/2019/10/18/20899208/tree-of-life-anniversary-pittsburgh-shooting-american-jews">Pittsburgh synagogue shooting in 2018</a>, the attack on an <a href="https://www.vox.com/2019/8/3/20753049/el-paso-walmart-cielo-vista-mall-shooting-what-we-know">El Paso Walmart frequented by Latinos in 2019</a>, or the <a href="https://www.vox.com/policy-and-politics/2022/5/16/23074812/buffalo-shooting-accelerationism-great-replacement-neo-nazi">2022 massacre of supermarket shoppers</a> in a Black area of Buffalo.
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The former presidents rhetoric has often directly encouraged violence. At a 2016 rally in Iowa, Trump instructed his supporters to “knock the crap out of” disruptive protesters. “I promise you I will pay for the legal fees,” he added. During the 2020 protests over George Floyds murder, Trump implied that any rioters should be shot by tweeting <a href="https://www.npr.org/2020/05/29/864818368/the-history-behind-when-the-looting-starts-the-shooting-starts">an old white supremacist slogan</a>: “when the looting starts, the shooting starts.”
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And, at the fateful rally on January 6, 2021, he <a href="https://www.npr.org/2021/02/10/966396848/read-trumps-jan-6-speech-a-key-part-of-impeachment-trial">told his assembled supporters that</a> “if you dont fight like hell, youre not going to have a country anymore.” That day, and ones immediately to follow, dramatize just how profoundly threats of violence have come to shape Republican politics.
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How the threat of violence cemented Trumps control over the GOP when it looked most vulnerable
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On January 6, a crowd chanting “hang <a href="https://www.vox.com/mike-pence">Mike Pence</a>” rampaged through the Capitols halls. Members of Congress on both sides legitimately feared for their lives, leading many Republicans to privately support Democrats impeachment push afterward. Trump, they believe, needed to be held accountable for what they had been through.
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But the fear of physical harm, of someone killing them or their families, held some of these Republicans back from voting to impeach him. The threat even became a tool of peer pressure — Republicans citing the danger of speaking out to keep each other in line. Sen. Romney <a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2023/11/mitt-romney-retiring-senate-trump-mcconnell/675306/">recounted stories</a> to this effect to the Atlantics McKay Coppins:
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When one senator, a member of leadership, said he was leaning toward voting to convict, the others urged him to reconsider. You cant do that, Romney recalled someone saying. Think of your personal safety, said another. Think of your children. The senator eventually decided they were right.
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Romney personally refused to bow to this intimidation and voted to impeach, just as he did during Trumps first impeachment. But not every Republican displayed this level of bravery in the face of serious threats to both their political and personal future.
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Just before the House vote on impeachment, Rep. Jason Crow (D-CO) has said he heard firsthand from Republicans that fear was holding at least two of them back.
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“I had a lot of conversations with my Republican colleagues last night, and a couple of them broke down in tears — saying that they are afraid for their lives if they vote for this impeachment,” he <a href="https://twitter.com/MeetThePress/status/1349369689227603968">said in an MSNBC</a> appearance.
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Former Rep. Peter Meijer (R-MI) <a href="https://www.detroitnews.com/story/opinion/2021/01/09/opinion-after-heinous-assault-time-reckon-reality/6599593002/">recalls</a> one of his House colleagues privately condemning Trumps claims of election fraud, but voting to overturn the election results on the evening of January 6 — just hours after the assault.
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“My colleague feared for family members, and the danger the vote would put them in,” Meijer wrote in a <a href="https://www.detroitnews.com/story/opinion/2021/01/09/opinion-after-heinous-assault-time-reckon-reality/6599593002/">Detroit News op-ed</a>. This fear wasnt idle: After voting to impeach Trump, Meijer himself faced so many threats that felt the need to <a href="https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2021/01/14/impeachment-vote-causes-republican-peter-meijer-buy-body-armor/4158935001/">purchase body armor</a>.
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And reporters confirmed these accounts.
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“I know for a fact several members <em>want</em> to impeach but fear casting that vote could get them or their families murdered,” journalist Tim Alberta <a href="https://twitter.com/TimAlberta/status/1349389150622019584">tweeted before the House impeachment vote</a>.
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While the January 6 riot failed to crown Trump president, it had a clear and undeniable secondary effect: intimidating Republicans who might otherwise have voted to impeach him. Absent these threats, its possible that Republicans like Romney could have mustered up additional GOP votes in the Senate to convict Trump.
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If these threats could so powerfully shape the behavior of some of Americas wealthiest and most powerful legislators, how much might they affect state and local officials with far fewer resources?
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The unique importance of Republican-on-Republican violence
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The increase in threats of late is bipartisan. Ordinary Democrats and Republicans feel like politics have taken on an existential cast in the Trump era, and there are angry people with poor impulse control from all factions in both parties. In 2017, a left-wing extremist opened fire on Republican members of Congress practicing for the Congressional Baseball Game, <a href="https://scalise.house.gov/media/press-releases/scalise-reflects-shooting-five-years-later-previews-tonight-s-congressional">nearly killing Rep. Steve Scalise (R-LA)</a>.
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Since then, staunch Trump-aligned Republicans like Rep. Matt Gaetz (FL) have said theyd experienced significant levels of threat. <a href="https://www.axios.com/2023/11/17/israel-hamas-war-protests-threats-palestinian-threats-congress">Jewish</a> and <a href="https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/congress/muslim-ilhan-omar-congress-spikes-death-threats-rcna121248">Muslim</a> Democrats with differing positions on the <a href="https://www.vox.com/2018/11/20/18079996/israel-palestine-conflict-guide-explainer">Israel-Palestine conflict</a> have reported significant increases in death threats during the <a href="https://www.vox.com/2023/10/7/23907683/israel-hamas-war-news-updates-october-2023">Israel-Hamas war</a>. All of this is consistent with data showing partisans of both sides issuing threats at higher rates than they did in the pre-Trump era.
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But this does not mean the threats are evenly distributed, or that the effects are symmetrical across officials of both parties.
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The simplest way to think about it is that threats on the right are more credible than threats on the left. Statistics regularly show that far-right political violence is <a href="https://www.pbs.org/newshour/show/far-right-violence-a-growing-threat-and-law-enforcements-top-domestic-terrorism-concern">not only more common</a> than other forms in todays America but also <a href="https://www.csis.org/analysis/pushed-extremes-domestic-terrorism-amid-polarization-and-protest">far more deadly</a> and impactful. In recent years, far-right killers have been responsible for the largest mass murders of Jews <em>and</em> Latinos in American history and the only riot ever to breach the US Capitol.
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Moreover, the physical realities of political life make one uniquely exposed to radicals on ones own side. Stephen Richer wasnt attending Democratic rallies back when Arizona Democrats hated his guts; he had no reason to. But putting himself in front of Republican crowds made him uniquely exposed, especially in places where people bring their firearms everywhere they go.
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Supporters of Donald Trump gather in front of the Harrisburg Capitol building to protest the 2020 election results, which declared Joe Biden as the winner on November 7, 2020, in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania.
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Romney recalls feeling this kind of fear when he went to Utah after the <a href="https://www.vox.com/trump-impeachment-inquiry">Trump impeachment</a> fight. Facing crowds full of Mormon Republicans who had long been his base, he received such a hostile reaction that he was beginning to fear for his life. “It only takes one really disturbed person,” he told Coppins, adding that he began paying $5,000 a day out of pocket for personal security.
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The special impact of right-on-right violent threats isnt just about means and opportunity; its also about motive.
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Broadly speaking, Democrats have safety in numbers from the far right: Because the party in general opposes Trump and Trumpism, individual members anti-Trump positioning is less likely to attract ire from his supporters. By contrast, individual Republicans who dissent from the Trumpist line immediately get singled out in conservative and far-right media — attracting the sort of attention reserved for a handful of “most hated” Democrats such as Reps. Nancy Pelosi (CA) or Ilhan Omar (MN).
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For all these reasons, threats of violence are likely to be uniquely effective on Republicans when issued from their own base. The threats work, more than anything else, to <em>discipline</em> elected Republicans — to force them to toe whatever line the Trumpists want them to walk, or else.
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That said, the power of this disciplining effect will likely vary from case to case. During Octobers battle to decide the next speaker of the House, supporters of the Trumpy Rep. Jim Jordan (OH) directed <a href="https://apnews.com/article/house-speaker-jim-jordan-threats-54eeecef0188edfcb9903e45019f190f">a large number of death threats</a> at House Republicans who refused to vote for him. But this time, the wavering Republicans refused to cave — even citing the threats as a reason for opposing Jordan, who was ultimately forced out of the race.
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But we have no reason to believe the threat of violence has lost its disciplining power entirely.
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For one, the danger simply hasnt gone away: <a href="https://www.civicpulse.org/post/the-cost-of-local-government-leadership">Data on threats to local officials</a> released in September, from Civic Pulse and Princetons Bridging Divides Institute, shows that the level of threat has remained constant over the past year.
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“The threat against [Trump-skeptical Republicans] is real and continuing,” <a href="https://www.cfr.org/blog/violent-far-right-terrorist-threat-republican-party-and-american-conservatism">writes</a> the Council on Foreign Relations <a href="https://www.cfr.org/expert/jacob-ware">Jacob Ware</a>. “Trump today retains an overwhelming power to deploy vitriol and violence against his political rivals.”
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For another, the Jordan speakership fight was missing several crucial features that make threats appear more serious. Unlike the 2020 election, which forced Republicans in the House and Senate to pick between siding with Trump or the Democrats, this was an internal fight between conservative Republicans. And its one where Trumps personal future wasnt directly at stake — unlike, say, this years election.
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Threats and the 2024 election
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As Trump returned to the campaign trail in 2023, he became <a href="https://www.vox.com/2023/11/14/23958866/trump-vermin-authoritarian-democracy">increasingly willing to employ naked authoritarian rhetoric and physical threats</a>.
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He encouraged people to “go after” New York Attorney General Leticia James, suggested shoplifters should be shot, and intimated that former Joint Chiefs of Staff chair Mark Milley deserves to be executed. Perhaps most ominously, he vowed to “root out the communists, Marxists, fascists, and the radical left thugs that live like vermin within the confines of our country that lie and steal and cheat on elections.”
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According to Kleinfeld, people around the world are substantially more likely to engage in political violence when they feel like they have permission from their political representatives to do it. Its a major part of the reason why, in the US data shes examined, incidents of threats and actual violence are “three to five times higher” on the political right today than on the left.
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This cannot be lost on Republican officials, and their behavior in the past few years suggests it in fact isnt. The lockstep support for Trump even after four indictments, indicates they remain disciplined by the former presidents power — both electoral and physical. The lessons of January 6 and its aftermath have been fully internalized.
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And were now entering an election season thats especially likely to raise the threat level.
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During the last presidential election cycle, threats against public officials tended to rise at pivotal moments in the campaign calendar. Threats against local election officials <a href="https://bridgingdivides.princeton.edu/sites/g/files/toruqf246/files/documents/Threats%20and%20Harassment%20Report.pdf">peaked around the November 2020 election itself,</a> while threats against members of Congress (of course) spiked in the days around January 6. Thankfully, none were killed during either of those periods — but not for lack of trying.
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Then-Philadelphia City Commissioner Al Schmidt, a Republican responsible for election oversight, became a lightning rod in 2020 when Trump singled him out <a href="https://billypenn.com/2020/12/01/al-schmidt-death-threats-trump-philadelphia-election-zero-fraud-republican-commissioner/">by name in a tweet</a> as someone who was “being used big time by the Fake News Media” as a cover for election fraud.
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He received <a href="https://www.brennancenter.org/our-work/policy-solutions/election-officials-under-attack">a wave of threats</a>; a deputy commissioner, Seth Bluestein, was subjected to anti-Semitic abuse. Schmidts wife got emails with threats such as “ALBERT RINO SCHMIDT WILL BE FATALLY SHOT” and “HEADS ON SPIKES. TREASONOUS SCHMIDTS.” The family left their home for safety reasons after the election, and Schmidt did not run for reelection in 2023 (he was recently appointed to serve as secretary of state under Pennsylvanias Democratic governor, Josh Shapiro).
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The <a href="https://www.vox.com/2024-elections">2024 election</a> promises to be every bit as contentious. If anything, Trumps ongoing legal woes make the stakes even higher — both for him and his movement. His rhetoric is already escalating, his followers at even higher alert for signs of betrayal from the “RINOs” in the “Republican establishment.”
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Never before has it been more important for Republican officials to stand up for the integrity of the American electoral system. But they havent faced this level of threat in their political lives — in fact, no currently living elected official has.
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“They say its never been this bad before. Well, on the one hand, it has,” says Freeman, the Yale professor. “On the other hand … Im talking about the lead-up to the Civil War.”
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<em>Ben Jacobs contributed reporting to this piece</em>.
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Heres how to interpret your own feelings.
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Despite having a network of friends and acquaintances, Rohit Singla, an MD-PhD student in Vancouver, knows no other existence than one of loneliness. “I think I associate myself with being baseline lonely,” the 31-year-old says. Beneath the exterior of a productive, competent scholar is a man who feels he is lacking deep, caring, reciprocal relationships. Seeing friends in long-term relationships only illuminates the distance that naturally grows when romance takes precedence over friendship. When the group chat is silent in response to his attempts at coordinating a hangout, Singla suspects hes low on his friends lists of priorities.
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There are times he feels appreciated, less alone: when a pal checks in just to see how hes doing or when someone he hasnt spoken to in awhile reconnects. But despite these respites of connection, the undercurrent of alienation persists. “Loneliness,” Singla says, “is this simmering, ongoing feeling.”
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Over the last decade, loneliness has reached <a href="https://www.hhs.gov/about/news/2023/05/03/new-surgeon-general-advisory-raises-alarm-about-devastating-impact-epidemic-loneliness-isolation-united-states.html">so-called epidemic levels</a>, with <a href="https://www.vox.com/public-health">public health</a> officials and researchers alike quantifying the <a href="https://www.cdc.gov/emotional-wellbeing/social-connectedness/loneliness.htm">mental</a> and <a href="https://www.apa.org/monitor/2019/05/ce-corner-isolation">physical health impacts</a> of living in social isolation. Still, there is no one way to experience loneliness. Its the isolating dread of not having found your place in the world. Its the heaving weight of grief after losing a person, a place, a community. Its the pang of anxiety when you remember how long its been since you saw your best friend. Its a sense of foreignness despite being surrounded by familiar faces. For Singla, loneliness is a palpable burden (“My loneliness physically feels heavy,” he says) as well as an emotionally destabilizing one. “It feels unsteady. I almost feel like I just lose myself.”
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Researchers have put names to this kaleidoscope of experiences in the hope that by distinguishing the root causes of loneliness, people can better understand how to address it. “The differentiation of the nature of loneliness is predicated, to some degree, on the fact that you can intervene and do something about it,” says <a href="https://www.brunel.ac.uk/people/christina-victor">Christina Victor</a>, a professor of gerontology and public health at Brunel University London.
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What is loneliness?
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The state of isolation is not the same as loneliness. “People can still feel lonely when theyre around other people,” says <a href="https://julianneholtlunstad.byu.edu/julianne-holt-lunstad">Julianne Holt-Lunstad</a>, a professor of psychology and neuroscience at Brigham Young University, ”and you can be isolated but not feel lonely.” <a href="https://peplau.psych.ucla.edu/wp-content/uploads/sites/141/2017/07/Perlman-Peplau-81.pdf">Loneliness refers</a> to the distressing feeling you have when your social desires dont align with your reality. Someone may have a close confidant in their romantic partner but still feel lacking in social connection. Someone else could interact with people all day but crave deep conversation. Loneliness is a personal experience, Victor says, not an objective one. An outsider cannot diagnose a person as being lonely; only that person can admit loneliness to themselves and others.
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Just like hunger or thirst, loneliness is a biological signal prompting people to satiate their need for social interaction, Holt-Lunstad says.
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Within the overall scope of loneliness are distinct ways people can experience it. According to <a href="https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Chikako-Ozawa-De-Silva">Chikako Ozawa-de Silva</a>, a professor of Japanese studies and anthropology at Emory University, the breakdown is as simple as “ordinary” loneliness (sadness after a breakup or a move, homesickness), grief, and “afflictive” loneliness. The latter “is a deep, pervasive sense of disconnection,” says Ozawa-de Silva, who is the author of <a href="https://www.ucpress.edu/book/9780520383494/the-anatomy-of-loneliness"><em>The Anatomy of Loneliness: Suicide, Social Connection, and the Search for Relational Meaning in Contemporary Japan</em></a>. “Of not being accepted or acknowledged by others.” Victor distinguishes between transient loneliness — a period of heartache that comes and goes — and chronic loneliness.
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Three common types of loneliness have been defined in the scientific literature, Victor and her colleagues found in <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8582800/">a 2021 review</a> of loneliness studies dating back to 1945. There, the experiences of loneliness fell into three categories: social, emotional, and existential. To be socially lonely is to lack social connection with those you know and love, Victor says. If youre grieving the loss of a person, youre experiencing emotional loneliness. Those who feel separated from others due to death, divorce, or physical or mental decline are said to endure existential loneliness. The lived experience of loneliness is less about feeling one of these three ways and more a Venn diagram of intersecting and overlapping social desires: a yearning for another community outside of the ones you already inhabit, desiring the intimate connection offered by a romantic partner.
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<a href="https://www.norc.org/about/experts/louise-hawkley.html">Louise Hawkley</a>, a principal research scientist at NORC, a nonpartisan research organization at the University of Chicago, isnt totally satisfied with those descriptors. “Social loneliness, its also emotional,” she says. <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16181443/">In her</a><a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3889142/"> research</a>, Hawkley focused on areas of connectedness that contribute to loneliness: intimate connectedness (deep relationships with, say, a spouse); relational connectedness (quantity of friends and how often you see them); and collective connectedness (feeling like youre a part of a community). Like other frameworks of loneliness, these dimensions of connectedness are not independent of one another; people need to connect in all three domains in order to feel emotionally fulfilled. “We think of those three dimensions as critical that underlie loneliness,” Hawkley says. “People who tend to feel lonely on one of those dimensions tend to feel lonely [overall].”
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While the signifiers may slightly differ, the experiences they describe are universal. The phrases “<a href="https://magazine.hms.harvard.edu/articles/alone-crowd">feeling alone in a crowd,</a><a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8985970/">“lost at sea,” and “living in darkness”</a> conjure vivid images for social, emotional, and existential loneliness or the lack of intimate, relational, and collective connectedness.
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Loneliness takes different forms throughout a persons lifespan. A child, for instance, can feel socially ostracized by their peers. Young adulthood can be alienating for teens who leave home for college. New parents often feel untethered from their communities, especially among childfree friends. Come retirement, relationships with colleagues can be strained without physical proximity. “People who are lonely because theyve geographically relocated,” Hawkley says, “are going to feel something different than somebody whos lonely because their spouse just died, or somebody who feels lonely because theyve become immobile and theyre limited to staying in their house.”
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For much of her career, loneliness was only thought to impact older people, Victor says. But young adults can feel social, emotional, and existential loneliness. “I hypothesize that one of the reasons that we see high levels of loneliness in young people is there probably is social loneliness: People in my gang wont talk to me anymore,’” she says. “There is the emotional loneliness of perhaps as a young person, losing your grandparent who might have been a very important part of your social group … And Im quite taken with the idea that perhaps some of the loneliness that young adults experience is this existential bit, particularly if you think about the challenges confronting young people in terms of <a href="https://www.vox.com/climate">climate change</a> and war.”
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A more contemporary contributing factor, social media, shapes our expectations of relationships. Consuming the highlight reel of peers social lives fosters comparison among younger cohorts. Perhaps ironically, young people who spend more time on social media as a means of maintaining relationships feel lonelier than those who have differing motivations for using social media, <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9817115/">according to a recent study</a>. “Are we using it to supplement our friendship experience,” asks friendship coach <a href="https://www.betterfemalefriendships.com/about">Danielle Bayard Jackson</a>, author of the forthcoming book <a href="https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/danielle-bayard-jackson/fighting-for-our-friendships/9780306830631/"><em>Fighting for Our Friendships</em></a>, “or are we using it to take the place of being with people?”
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Social, health, and economic factors also make a person more prone to loneliness. Young adults under the age of 30 and those who make less than $24,000 per year <a href="https://news.gallup.com/poll/473057/loneliness-subsides-pandemic-high.aspx">report higher levels of loneliness</a> compared to older and wealthier people, according to the Gallup National Health and Well-Being Index. Hispanic and Black Americans, parents, and those with physical or <a href="https://www.vox.com/mental-health">mental health</a> challenges are also more likely to be lonely, according to a <a href="https://newsroom.thecignagroup.com/loneliness-epidemic-persists-post-pandemic-look">2021 survey by Cigna and Morning Consult.</a> “I wonder if thats just a [lack of] group connectedness — the collective — because theyre often a peripheralized population,” Hawkley says. “Theyre not made to feel like they belong. The same would be true [of] <a href="https://www.vox.com/lgbtq">LGBTQ</a> folks — [they] are definitely at a higher risk, immigrants at a higher risk.” Fostering meaningful connections can prove challenging when youre working three jobs or dont feel welcome in a community.
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Multiple cross-country moves gave Emily Gonzales, 35, more clarity when it came to her own social needs. Upon relocating to Indianapolis, where she had grown up, she noticed a wedge between herself and her childhood friends. Their values didnt align, she realized, and they didnt have similar aspirations. “Youre around a bunch of people, but you dont feel like anybody really gets you,” says Gonzales, who works in medical sales. “These people Ive known for my entire life, but I dont feel like they know me or I know them.”
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Once Gonzales and her husband moved to their current home base of Scottsdale, Arizona, she was purposeful when forging new connections. She used Bumble For Friends to spend time with people with similar interests and life experiences, like being a stepmom. One of the first women she met was Ashlee Smith, a 36-year-old insurance broker who had also recently moved to the area from Portland, Maine.
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Though Smith recently had a baby, she and Gonzales still make time for one another. Gonzales frequently checks in with Smith and even traveled with her and her infant to Portland. “Your world gets so much smaller,” Smith says of parenthood. “Emily and I even had a conversation about it because she could tell I was just a little off. So she checked in and shes like, What do you need? How can I help you?’”
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How to address various dimensions of loneliness
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Understanding the drivers of loneliness can help individuals — and societies — effectively resolve it. Because each dimension of loneliness and connection requires different solutions, one blanket suggestion may not work for every lonely individual. “Simply increasing social contact may not reduce someones loneliness,” Holt-Lunstad says.
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Self-reflection can offer a few solutions. In one of her <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35716479/">studies</a>, Victor found 71 percent of older adults had felt lonely during their lives. She and her collaborators asked participants how they had addressed past loneliness. “People were referring to things that they did. One I really liked, but weve never published it,” she says. “A guy said, If I feel lonely, Id go to the church or the pub, depending upon what day of the week it is.’” To manage present loneliness, remember past bouts of alienation and mull over what made you feel more connected. Can you replicate the strategy in your current situation?
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If you feel like youre <a href="https://www.vox.com/22992901/how-to-find-your-community-as-an-adult">lacking a community</a>, <a href="https://www.vox.com/even-better/23837430/how-to-make-friends-start-a-club">joining the first club</a> that comes to mind may not be inherently satisfying. Instead, consider important aspects of your identity youd like to explore, suggests Bayard Jackson. Complete the phrase “I am …” to help guide you. “I might say, I am Black. I am a woman. I am a Christian. I am a mom,’” she says. “Then ask yourself for each one of these identifiers, Am I in community for each one of these in spaces that are formed by this aspect of identity?’” If not, you might want to seek out connection with people who share one of these domains.
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You dont need to accomplish the modern feat of making new friends in adulthood to combat loneliness either. Deepening existing relationships is just as rewarding, but it also requires a shift in mindset: Strengthening these friendships must be a priority. Diversifying your social diet to include <a href="https://www.vox.com/even-better/23744304/how-much-social-interaction-do-you-need-loneliness-burnout">interactions with strangers and acquaintances</a> is also socially fulfilling. “We often have to make time out of our busy schedules to be physically active,” Holt-Lunstad says, “and we need to make time in our busy schedules to be socially active.” Both Gonzales and Smith say they were strategic in identifying the types of people and friendships that would satiate their loneliness.
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Connection can also be found absent other people. People form strong relationships to places (like a hometown or a hiking trail) and activities (like music or art), Ozawa-de Silva notes. Visiting these locales or engaging in these hobbies may curb loneliness.
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But the responsibility to address loneliness cant fall solely to the individual. Societies that value productivity and competition over the unique merits of its people breed loneliness, says Ozawa-de Silva. “An increasing number of individuals who are experiencing loneliness, anxiety, panic [disorders],” she says, “I think thats a sign that something is really not right in our society.” To help address this crisis, Ozawa-de Silva says communities can instill values like compassion and empathy at an early age and encourage a teamwork-oriented goal structure for children. “We need to address it at the systemic level,” she says. “Maybe social education, different kinds of programs, something that would hopefully change a few priorities in contemporary societies to think about the limitations of hypervigilance and a hyperfocus on competition and productivity.”
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Addressing any form of loneliness isnt an overnight endeavor. Relationships of every variety require dedication and persistence to bloom. Consider your quest toward social harmony like tending to a garden, planting seeds for a variety of different types of connection — intimate, relational, and collective alike.
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<h1 data-aos="fade-right" id="from-the-hindu-sports">From The Hindu: Sports</h1>
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<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>After junior wrestlers protest, ad-hoc panel announces organisation of U-15, U-20 Nationals</strong> -</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>WFI without Sanjay Singh is acceptable to us: Sakshi Malik</strong> - Fresh protest erupts in Indian wrestling; this time against Bajrang, Sakshi and Vinesh</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Ind vs SA 2nd Test | Siraj lets rip as India bowls South Africa out for 55</strong> - Mohammed Siraj was superb with his line and length in a nine-over spell, taking a career-best of 6 for 15</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Suryakumar doesnt quite know what to do in ODIs but he is a freak in T20 cricket, says Hussain</strong> - “The person for the world to watch out for at the moment in T20 is Suryakumar Yadav,” says Hussain</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Bangladesh cricketer Shakib Al Hasan to contest election from hometown constituency</strong> - Shakib Al Hasan is contesting the election from Magura-1 with the Awami Leagues Boat symbol as a first-time MP hopeful</p></li>
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<h1 data-aos="fade-right" id="from-the-hindu-national-news">From The Hindu: National News</h1>
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<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>ASI urges Varanasi court not to make Gyanvapi survey report public for four more weeks</strong> - The ASI submitted its survey report to the district court in a sealed cover on December 18</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Jaishankar speaks to Ukranian counterpart</strong> - The phone conversation came days after Mr. Jaishankar paid a five-day visit to Moscow</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Sarathkumar pays respects to late Vijayakant</strong> - Sarathkumar recalled how Vijayakant helped him when he needed it the most.</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Here are the big stories from Karnataka today</strong> - Welcome to the Karnataka Today newsletter, your guide from The Hindu on the major news stories to follow today. Curated and written by Nalme Nachiyar.</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Interest rates for deposits in Keralas cooperative sector to be hiked</strong> - On deposits of terms up to one year, the interest rate will go up by 0.50% and on those above one year by 0.75%, said Minister for Cooperation V.N. Vasavan after a meeting of top functionaries in Keralas cooperative sector</p></li>
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<h1 data-aos="fade-right" id="from-bbc-europe">From BBC: Europe</h1>
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<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Ukraine war: Missiles fired at Russian city Belgorod and occupied Crimea</strong> - Russian officials say Belgorod, where 25 people were killed on Saturday, came under a new attack.</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Ukraine war: Grim new year for Ukrainians under shadow of Russian attack</strong> - Ukrainians see in a second new year under some of the heaviest aerial bombardment since Russias war began.</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>In pictures: Nordic states gripped by winter freeze</strong> - Sweden and Finland record their coldest temperatures of the winter, as Denmark is hit by a snowstorm.</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Turkey detains 34 on suspicion of spying for Israel</strong> - Investigators allege the suspects were planning abductions on behalf of Israeli intelligence.</p></li>
<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>What is behind Turkeys staunch support for Hamas in Gaza?</strong> - Turkey has vociferously criticised Israel during the Gaza war, risking recently rebuilt relations.</p></li>
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<h1 data-aos="fade-right" id="from-ars-technica">From Ars Technica</h1>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>A commanders lament on the loss of a historic SpaceX rocket</strong> - This rocket restored NASA crew launches to US soil, then launched 18 more times. - <a href="https://arstechnica.com/?p=1993381">link</a></p></li>
<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Ancient desert mega-structures were planned using carved maps to scale</strong> - “This calls for the representation of space in a way not seen at this time.” - <a href="https://arstechnica.com/?p=1993193">link</a></p></li>
<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>34 years later, a 13-year-old hits the NES Tetris “kill screen”</strong> - BlueScuti forces the game to crash after 40 minutes and 1,511 lines. - <a href="https://arstechnica.com/?p=1993353">link</a></p></li>
<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Vizio settles for $3M after saying 60 Hz TVs had 120 Hz “effective refresh rate”</strong> - Vizio claimed backlight scanning made refresh rates <em>seem</em> twice as high. - <a href="https://arstechnica.com/?p=1993296">link</a></p></li>
<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Since Elon Musks Twitter purchase, firm reportedly lost 72% of its value</strong> - Fidelity cuts value of X stake, implying 72% drop since Musk paid $44 billion. - <a href="https://arstechnica.com/?p=1993311">link</a></p></li>
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The bartender is almost impressed by such a claim. “If thats the case, why dont you trot her over to our stage and put on a show for everyone? Hell, there might even be a free drink in it for you.”
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She calls on Sally who says “my daddy is a baker, ummm I think its b-a-c-e-r?”
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“Very close! Great work!” She gives Sally the correct spelling and calls the next student.
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Timmy says, “my dads a cop, c-o-p.” “Thats right, great job!”
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“Dad?”, asks his son on the phone. “Im on my honeymoon, and I dont know how to have sex. Can you explain it to me?”
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“Ah, son, its easy; just insert the hardest part of your body where she pees,” replies the sleepy father.
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He yawns, hangs up the phone and lays his head on the pillow when another call comes in.
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“Mister?, asks his daughter-in-law.”I need help! Your son stuck his head in the toilet."
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