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<h1 data-aos="fade-down" id="daily-dose">Daily-Dose</h1>
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<h1 data-aos="fade-right" data-aos-anchor-placement="top-bottom" id="contents">Contents</h1>
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<li><a href="#from-new-yorker">From New Yorker</a></li>
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<li><a href="#from-vox">From Vox</a></li>
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<li><a href="#from-the-hindu-sports">From The Hindu: Sports</a></li>
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<li><a href="#from-the-hindu-national-news">From The Hindu: National News</a></li>
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<li><a href="#from-bbc-europe">From BBC: Europe</a></li>
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<li><a href="#from-ars-technica">From Ars Technica</a></li>
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<li><a href="#from-jokes-subreddit">From Jokes Subreddit</a></li>
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<h1 data-aos="fade-right" id="from-new-yorker">From New Yorker</h1>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>“I’m a Woman, I’m a Mother, I’m Christian”: How Giorgia Meloni Took Control in the Italian Election</strong> - The country has chosen its most right-wing government since the Second World War. Will political dysfunction temper extremism? - <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/news/q-and-a/im-a-woman-im-a-mother-im-christian-how-giorgia-meloni-took-control-in-the-italian-election">link</a></p></li>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>“Hurricane Maria Never Finished Leaving Us”: The Aftermath of Fiona in a Puerto Rican Town</strong> - “You’re seeing the most dramatic display of inequality,” a Puerto Rican teacher and independence activist said, after Hurricane Fiona. “It hurts.” - <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/news/as-told-to/hurricane-maria-never-finished-leaving-us-the-aftermath-of-fiona-in-a-puerto-rican-town">link</a></p></li>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>A Fine Economic Mess in the United Kingdom</strong> - With the pound hitting record lows, financial analysts are questioning the competence of Britain’s new government. - <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/news/our-columnists/a-fine-economic-mess-in-the-united-kingdom">link</a></p></li>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>The Thorny Problem of Keeping the Internet’s Time</strong> - An obscure software system synchronizes the network’s clocks. Who will keep it running? - <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/tech/annals-of-technology/the-thorny-problem-of-keeping-the-internets-time">link</a></p></li>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Sandra Cisneros Reads José Antonio Rodríguez</strong> - The poet joins Kevin Young to read and discuss “Shelter,” by José Antonio Rodríguez, and her own poem “Tea Dance, Provincetown, 1982.” - <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/podcast/poetry/sandra-cisneros-reads-jose-antonio-rodriguez">link</a></p></li>
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<h1 data-aos="fade-right" id="from-vox">From Vox</h1>
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<li><strong>The 2022 midterm elections, explained</strong> -
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A person votes in Brooklyn, New York, in November 2021. | Michael M. Santiago/Getty Images
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The 2022 midterms are coming up on November 8, when voters across the US will decide the makeup of Congress, determine who will hold key offices in their states and cities, and weigh in on policies directly via ballot measures.
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Democrats currently have narrow majorities in both chambers, and because the same party holds the White House, conditions are ideal for them to pass bills President Joe Biden will sign. But forecasts suggest Democrats are likely to lose control of the House and keep the Senate this fall — though many key races are so close that anything is possible.
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Beyond Washington, governors, secretaries of state, and attorneys general, along with members of the legislature, are up for election in dozens of states. The winners of those contests will affect state policies on issues as varied as abortion, voting rights, and Covid-19.
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Vox has been digging into the stakes of individual races and the entire country and will continue to through and even after Election Day. If you’re just starting to follow the elections, you can get a better understanding of what’s on the line <a href="https://www.vox.com/policy-and-politics/2022/9/12/23344632/midterms-2022-elections-key-house-senate-races-control-congress">here</a>, and if you’re trying to figure out what you need to do to vote, <a href="https://www.vox.com/even-better/23363748/voting-guide-registration-polling-place-voter-suppression">start here</a>.
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Do you have something you want explained that you don’t see on this page? Ask a Vox reporter your questions about Congress <a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf6isuraAwbdnBBVVKorqU-b6TdYQFuHmQKqcrW5TC-N1Y4bg/viewform">here</a>, about what’s going on in the states <a href="http://vox.com/ask-nicole-narea.">here</a>, and about the politics of the midterms <a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfgKliYTFIvitGbPSxGzMyiB1PnfUWBq_Ef81sdv0y5-R8qGw/viewform">here</a>.
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<li><strong>The Bros and cons of being a huge, gay Hollywood rom-com</strong> -
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Billy Eichner and Luke MacFarlane in Bros, a movie about gay dudes (not brothers). | Bros/Universal Pictures
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Bros wants to be a gay love story that doesn’t play it straight.
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Billy Eichner seems like the fun kind of grumpy — like a person who will say the mean stuff you’d wish you could say out loud. Eichner rocketed to success and visibility based on his ability to charmingly <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1XP5zczzJwY">harangue New Yorkers</a> on sidewalks. Then on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZIr0FpAuOnI"><em>Difficult People</em></a>, he sharpened that crankiness and pop culture savvy into an acidic, narcissistic lead also named Billy, in a <a href="https://www.thedailybeast.com/meet-billy-eichner-and-julie-klausner-tvs-most-difficult-people">show that’s loosely based</a> on his and his friend Julie Klausner’s lives.
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The underlying irony of Eichner’s humor is that the crankiness is blazing insecurity, the meanness is neurosis, and his self-absorption is a symptom of being his own biggest critic. He’s hilarious and caustic, but you probably wouldn’t assume he’s a romantic.
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Eichner is now starring as Bobby in<em> Bros</em>,<em> </em>which he co-wrote with director Nicholas Stoller. In it, he flexes a similar smart irritability that we saw in <em>Difficult People</em> and <em>Billy on the Street</em> — this time, in a rom-com. (Eichner has maintained that the movie isn’t strictly autobiographical but that it does borrow from his own life.)
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Romantic comedies are rare at this point, and romantic comedies about two gay men, starring two gay men (and an <a href="https://variety.com/2022/scene/news/billy-eichner-bros-queer-cast-1235286489/">all-LGBTQ cast</a>) are even rarer. <em>Bros</em> has the unfortunate pressure of being revolutionary by simply existing. Never mind that “revolutionary” in this case is more about how slow mainstream Hollywood can be when it comes to depicting LBGTQ relationships rather than any genuinely groundbreaking concepts that <em>Bros</em> contains. That’s an incredible amount of pressure to place on a movie about two conventionally attractive (one looking like a Marvel superhero) cis, gay white men who fall in love.
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It’s not a particularly easy position to be in.
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Eichner has drawn fire for trying to talk about the importance of <em>Bros</em> while simultaneously, and perhaps inadvertently, <a href="https://www.thewrap.com/billy-eichner-streaming-films-fire-island-bros/">putting other LGBTQ movies down</a>. He also has <a href="https://www.gawker.com/celebrity/billy-eichner-is-the-first-gay-man-ever-bros">described the act</a> of seeing the movie as a form of active resistance against Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas’s view on gay rights. I do not believe <em>Bros</em>’ box office will necessarily determine the future of <em>Obergefell v. Hodges.</em>
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But the movie is concerned with the specifics, meaning, and pressures of gay culture. As its title suggests, Eichner’s script roasts gay male culture and its obsessiveness with masculinity and muscles. The way traditional, heterosexual masculinity is lauded in gay male culture is a gay conundrum that <em>should</em> be made fun of more, and Eichner is more than skilled at doing so.
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What caught me off-guard, though, is how thoughtful Eichner is when it comes to mapping out his own character’s vulnerability. In a way that his comedy often elides, <em>Bros</em> has Bobby connecting the dots between cynicism and a pursuit of happiness. It’s terrifyingly intimate territory. I thought I knew Billy Eichner to be someone cynical, who’d written off romance, but <em>Bros</em> reflects a curiosity about how love functions in the heads and hearts of gay men. It’s a question worth exploring.
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<em>Bros</em> is a story of a neurotic boy standing in front of another boy, asking him to love him
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<em>Bros</em> operates on a gimmick: It asks explicitly what a gay love story could look like, free from hetero norms, and then, by coincidence, its hero has a chance to answer that question.
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The question comes to Bobby at work. He’s an award-winning podcaster who lands a dream gig of curating the country’s first LGBTQ+ museum in New York City. The museum gig is a vehicle for the movie to talk about queer history. Specifically, it’s a chance for Bobby to wrestle with the idea of how much same-sex marriage — the biggest pop culture touchstone when it comes to gay rights — factors into the identity of the museum and his own identity as a gay man.
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Bobby is an intellectual and political crank, an antithesis to the movie’s title. “Bro” itself implies a simpleness of being. Bros are part of the same genus as himbos, a laid-back species of masculine men. Bobby’s never laid-back; he’s argument-prone and hyper-aware. He’s funny in a way that complaints about failing bodies are funny, and watching him navigate through the world of gay male desire — hookup apps, flirty texts, DMs slides, and circuit parties — is sometimes hilarious, often at his own expense.
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Same-sex marriage ushered in a wave of tolerance and economic benefits for LGBTQ people, but Bobby’s a bit skeptical. To him, the advantages of gay marriage have also come at a price: the sanding down of the edges of gay life (even if he’s not partaking in those edges) into something more palatable for straight consumption. The years and years spent trying to convince straight people that LGBTQ people are just like them was maybe too effective, particularly when it comes to sex and romance.
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<img alt=" " src="https://cdn.vox-cdn.com/thumbor/7t2-Yqjc_YsGUoZvoZuyFc2j3dE=/800x0/filters:no_upscale()/cdn.vox-cdn.com/uploads/chorus_asset/file/24064245/Screen_Shot_2022_09_29_at_9.39.22_AM.png"/> <cite>Bros/Universal Pictures</cite>
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Luke MacFarlane probably does push-ups!
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To Bobby, straight people love <em>Schitt’s Creek</em> and its earnest gay romance because it’s egregiously, dopily unsexy — also the big reason he hates it so much. And oh my god, does Bobby really hate <em>Schitt’s Creek</em>.
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Since he doesn’t want the museum to pretend that same-sex marriage is the final, happy ending for queer rights, Bobby challenges his colleagues and his friends to imagine what an actual gay love story for gay people looks like. It’s a clever nod to the problem of creating a gay rom-com that doesn’t look like the same old straight stuff.
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Then, at a shirtless party, Bobby meets Aaron (Luke MacFarlane), a lawyer specializing in estate planning. That means that Aaron helps people draw up paperwork and decide where their money will go when they die. But Aaron doesn’t look like the kind of person who would have this job, gently guiding people to death. Aaron looks like a Barry’s Bootcamp instructor, someone you pay to be mean to you in a fitness way. He’s the kind of handsome that you can’t tell if you’re attracted to him or just want to have his pecs.
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Bobby and Aaron’s meet-cute isn’t really a conversation since the music is too loud (one of my homosexual friends refers to the music played at shirtless gay dance parties as “bing bong stuff”). It’s also not really a conversation because Bobby is mostly just yelling complaints about the party at Aaron. It works though, and Bobby and Aaron spend the rest of the movie figuring out whether and how much the other one likes them.
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There’s plenty of guy-on-guy sex happening in <em>Bros</em>, some of it hot and fun, some of it silly, and some of it both. Again, because of the relative lack of big Hollywood movies centering gay men and the sex they have, showing gay group sex might be seen as audacious or groundbreaking. But the most daring thing <em>Bros</em> does is trace the psychology of Bobby’s emotional intimacy.
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Bobby is hesitant to open up to Aaron, in large part, due to not feeling handsome or muscular or successful enough to warrant the affection of someone who is as handsome, as muscular, or as successful as Aaron. Admittedly, I’m not up to date on the latest heterosexual trends and best practices, but I don’t believe feeling like someone is out of your league is exclusively a queer problem.
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There’s plenty going on beneath the surface, though.
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As Bobby tells Aaron, he spent his whole childhood and adolescence being told to be anyone but the person he was. It’s a common experience for many little gay boys. Those kids grow up and that message takes its toll. Many gay men then spend an inordinate amount of their adult lives unraveling that damage, cleaving away the artificial parts of themselves they’ve built to find acceptance and finally rediscovering, sometimes too late, the tender bits that they discarded.
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A lot of the movie and a lot of Eichner’s comedy satirizes this trauma, stretching it to the point of neurotic derangement —<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=11BOOsypvDI"> Eichner once told James Corden</a> and a slightly unamused Riley Keough about not feeling handsome enough to warrant a happy ending after a massage. Bobby’s insecurity, his deep belief that everything — Aaron, his job, his success — can be yanked away at a moment’s notice, comes from the same place as the stress of not being hot enough for a hand job, but it’s delivered without the defense humor provides.
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When the movie gives us a glimpse into Aaron’s life, we see what these very different men have in common. They have the same experience of hiding themselves, but just broke in different ways. Aaron compensated by following a career path and workout regimen that was supposed to get him to a place where he’d be happy. Despite the abs, wealth, and validation, his happiness is also unfortunately tethered to a fear of losing it all.
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This is the staff in the movie that’s in charge of curating a museum of LGBTQ culture. It’s quite likely that they are making fun of <em>Schitt’s Creek</em> in this moment.
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Love, then, is a surreal thing for two men who have constantly been told it’s conditional. It’s somehow even more fragile when they come to the realization that they want it. Bobby and Aaron’s relationship is as much a negotiation of their own hangups and feelings of desire as it is wading through each other’s fears and insecurity to better understand each other. And of course, that’s exactly the kind of complicated gay love story that Bobby would love to see reflected in his museum exhibit.
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The pressures of gay life — whether that’s adhering to and later breaking norms in search of happiness, navigating sexual and aesthetic expectations, trying to forge an authentic life, or even speaking for the community through a museum exhibit or a de facto revolutionary movie — can feel enormous. And it’s thrilling to see it explored in romantic comedies like <em>Bros</em>. Hopefully, though, there’ll be a time where there’s not so much pressure to be “revolutionary.”
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<li><strong>What we get wrong about being in love</strong> -
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Carrie Jenkins on what philosophy can teach us about love and heartbreak.
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Do we need a new vision of romantic love?
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When you think of romantic love in popular culture, you probably think of one of two things: limitless joy or unspeakable sorrow.
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Pick your favorite stereotype: obsessed teenagers who can’t leave each other’s side until some youthful misdeed leads to a cry-fest. Or maybe it’s the romance novel depictions of infatuated adults tangled up in passionate love triangles.
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The point is, even if we know real relationships are much more complicated than this, we’re still drawn to misleading models of romantic love.
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A new book by the philosopher Carrie Jenkins, called <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Sad-Love-Romance-Search-Meaning/dp/150953959X/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr="><em>Sad Love: Romance and the Search for Meaning</em></a>, wants to scrap these simplistic stories and replace them with something richer and more complicated. For Jenkins, the problem isn’t that we imagine love as either blissful or tragic; it can certainly be both.
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The problem is that we expect love to mean happiness. And if we’re not happy, we think we’ve failed. But Jenkins says we should recognize that the pain and difficulties of love are not just unavoidable — they’re actually part of what makes love worthwhile. So the way we talk about love should reflect this.
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There’s so much to chew on in this book, and ultimately what it offers is more than a theory of love. It’s a philosophy of life. That’s why I invited Jenkins to join me for an episode of <a href="https://tools.applemediaservices.com/podcast/1081584611?country=us"><em>Vox Conversations</em></a>.
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Below is an excerpt, edited for length and clarity. As always, there’s much more in the full podcast, so listen and follow <em>Vox Conversations</em> on <a href="https://apps.apple.com/us/app/vox-conversations/id1215557536">Apple Podcasts</a>, <a href="https://podcasts.google.com/search/vox%20conversations">Google Podcasts</a>, <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/6NOJ6IkTb2GWMj1RpmtnxP">Spotify</a>, <a href="https://www.stitcher.com/show/vox-conversations">Stitcher</a>, or wherever you listen to podcasts.
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You say that we tend to imagine love as a “failure condition.” What does that mean?
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I say that if we are sad when we’re in love, it’s seen as a failure because love’s supposed to be about being happy ever after. If your relationship’s going well, we say we’re happy with the person, or we’re happy together. Happiness has just come to stand in for your love life going well.
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If we’re sad or if we’re angry, where does that leave us? Does that mean our relationships aren’t working? Does it mean we are not in love? Or even worse, does it mean we’re unlovable? What if we’re depressed?
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When I started writing this book, I was really depressed, and I was genuinely worried about how that left me for being capable of love and capable of being loved, because I didn’t think I was gonna be happy ever after. At some points, I had no hope of that even.
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I still thought I could love someone. I still thought someone could love me. So I wanted to know why we think of happiness as the success state for love and anything else as a failure condition.
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It’s either a Greek tragedy or just unspeakable bliss. And that seems a little too neat.
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Well, it’s all extremes, right? We are either ecstatic, waking up every morning, singing. Or they don’t love you back or they’ve left you or something, and it’s a complete tragedy, drama.
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Nothing in the middle, nothing normal, nothing boring.
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And what you call “sad love” — how is that different from the myth of romantic love?
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What I try to do is talk about a kind of love that has space for the full range of human emotions. That includes happiness, of course, but also sadness and anger. And also just the day-to-day, grayscale grind of getting up and going to work and not feeling particularly any kind of way about that, just doing it.
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Those are most people’s lives day to day. Most people are not particularly happy all the time. Most people are not particularly sad all the time, although some of us have experienced that.
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But what I want to say is all of these emotions are valid. All of these feelings are part of being human and being alive. And I think that means they should be part of love. I want to move away from defining love in terms of happiness, the way that that romantic myth tends to do, the “happy ever after” love.
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Now, sometimes, you could be sad for reasons that do indicate there’s a problem. And we can talk about that as well, but just being sad by itself doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with your love life or with your life in general — sometimes being sad is the right response to the world.
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Sometimes the world is a sad place, you know?
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You point out that we seem so much more willing to accept sad parental love than we are sad romantic love. Sad parental love, as you say, is not seen as a failure. That’s just what it is, it’s just baked into the cake.
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Whereas romantic love, if you’re experiencing sadness, something must have gone wrong. And that’s therefore an indictment maybe of the whole relationship.
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And this temptation to externalize it and say, “The other person is not making me happy.” That can be really toxic, too. Like it’s anyone else’s job to make you happy. That’s not necessarily what love is for or what love is about.
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One way I sometimes think about it is, I don’t think that the most valuable thing in my life is me being happy. Don’t get me wrong. I like being happy. I’ll take it if that’s available, but there are things that mean much more to me.
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And I think when people have children, we tend to understand this. You’re gonna have a rough time, but there’s something about that that means much more to you. And there’s something about that goal of raising your kids that is valuable and meaningful in a way that’s not really about happiness or your happiness.
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That is a useful way to think about this stuff sometimes.
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It’s a very existentialist book because it’s trying to map out a vision of love that’s truly compatible with freedom. I think that’s also what makes it very hard for people to practice in real life.
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We all want to love someone. We all want someone to love us. But the truth is that we often want someone to love us on our terms. And that’s problematic, if I’m reading you right.
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You write: “The other human being involved in such a relationship is presumably an autonomous agent with their own free will, not a prize you get for being a good person.”
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I’d go so far as to question whether that can even count as love. Because it’s almost like you’re not really loving that person. You are just loving something that happens inside of you when you are around that person.
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If you are not working in a collaborative spirit with them on things that are meaningful to them and to both of you, then yeah, I’m not really sure that I would wanna say that’s love at all.
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There’s also another risk that’s close to that one, which is where we tend to see a partner as a kind of social status symbol. Like, “Look at me, I’ve been able to attract <em>this</em> person.”
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When we’re thinking about it in that way, that again can be incredibly toxic. Not only because we’re not seeing the other person — we are just thinking about how being with them is a benefit to us.
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I’m married; I’ve been with my wife for 11 years now. We’re in a pretty challenging stage of life. We have a 3-year-old in the house, and that’s its own kind of tornado.
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But like everyone, we’re — both of us — changing and evolving. Hopefully productively, as we get older, often in unexpected ways. Anyone who’s a parent knows that it changes you.
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And the question we’re always asking is, how do we allow each other to grow and change without imposing our own expectations, or our own desires, on each other? And it’s really hard. There are inevitable clashes.
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And my biggest worry is that we might allow ourselves to believe the lie that love consists in the loss of our own agency, our own freedom. And that’s not really true. It only appears true if you’re attached to an unhealthy vision of love.
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But at the same time, if you’re going to love someone in a way that respects their autonomy, that means you’re not in control of them, and they don’t exist just for you, to make you feel secure or whatever. And that means you have to let go.
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And that’s hard and scary.
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Yeah. It’s scary. And I get it. I do.
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The thing about that is, if we don’t face that fact about needing to respect a partner’s own autonomy, it doesn’t make it not a fact. They still might grow and change in ways that pull them, maybe, away from us.
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We actually can’t stop that from happening whatever we try to do. But if we don’t look it in the face, we can kind of kid ourselves that it’s not true. So then, what’s gonna happen if we do that? I mean, maybe we’ll get lucky and nothing bad will happen.
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Another possibility, though, is we’re gonna be blindsided when that day comes because we’ve been ignoring the fact that our partner is their own person. We might even have brought it on by doing that, if we’ve been treating the person as though they’re just there for us.
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So if romantic love is this rich, dynamic thing that involves the entire spectrum of emotion, and it’s full of all these contradictory needs and desires, how do we know when it’s just not working? How do we know when it’s time to move on?
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There’s a lot to be said about thinking, not necessarily just in terms of when to move on, but to think about how things can change. So an individual person grows and changes over time, and relationships, if they are healthy, will grow and change over time as well.
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Part of what worries me about the romantic myth is that we’re supposed to be just the same way we are now forever. That never happens. Everybody changes. And if your relationship doesn’t change, then it’s going to die. Anything alive is gonna grow and is gonna change.
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So what I’m sometimes tempted to think about is how a relationship to another person needs to change, rather than what needs to end or be removed. And I’m not talking here about if you’re in an abusive relationship, or if things have gotten bad enough that you’re being harmed. That situation needs to end. Don’t get me wrong.
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But if you’re just realizing you’ve grown apart from someone in certain kinds of ways, and you’re no longer really engaged in the same lives anymore — once we’ve stepped away from thinking there’s only one story for how a loving relationship can look, we’re at liberty to say, “Okay, well, how could our loving relationship look if we only overlap in this much of our lives instead of that much like we used to? And what does that look like?”
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And then you can have a conversation about, does it look like being friends? Does it look like being lovers who only see one another somewhat occasionally? Does it look like becoming non-monogamous?
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There’s lots of ways that relationships can change that we’re just kind of trained out of considering as options. I just wish we were more aware of those possibilities for ways that love can change and grow over time. Because actually I think the “happy ever after” mythology and its associated conception that romantic love never changes is the exact thing that leads to all kinds of heartbreak and unnecessary separations and devastating breakups.
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One of the things I most appreciate about the argument you make in the book is that you emphasize love as a verb, not a noun. We have this idea of love as a passive thing, that it’s about feeling something rather than doing something.
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But that’s wrong. Love is not something you have — it’s something you do.
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It’s not something you just fall in, like a hole in the ground, right? You don’t just find yourself in a loving relationship one day. You can have some feelings, then, what do you do with that?
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You reference Victor Frankl quite a bit in the book, the famous Austrian psychiatrist who survived the Nazi concentration camps. And we both agree that he’s right when he says that the goal that makes life meaningful has to be something that points beyond ourselves.
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But for that exact reason, it means we can’t do this alone. So whatever form of love we aim at, it can’t just be about individual happiness. And part of figuring out how to love and, really, how to live, is knowing ourselves: what we value, what we want, what really matters.
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But if you accept this very existentialist insight — and I do; I think you do as well — if you accept that our identities aren’t fixed, that we’re making it up as we go, then you also have to accept that there’s no one-size-fits-all model of love. And what you need from people and what they need from you will constantly change. If the person you love or the people you love don’t recognize that, then you have to really ask yourself if that’s the kind of love you want, or if it’s even love at all.
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Right. If they’re loving something that they had in mind that you might be, but it’s not you, then they’re loving something that really is inside of them all along, and not the self, the being that you are, which is a living thing that grows and changes.
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Or if they love a version of yourself that you’ve grown past.
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Exactly. Right. They love a past time-slice of you.
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I think that happens a lot.
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You’re right that Victor Frankl’s a huge influence here. He’s actually the reason for the subtitle of this book. So it’s <em>Sad, Love: Romance and the Search for Meaning</em>, and Frankl’s book was called <em>Man’s Search For Meaning</em>.
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But that’s why I chose that phrase for my subtitle: to respect what Frankl is saying about how you have to place meaningfulness and what you actually value at the center, and not happiness, in order to survive difficult situations.
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<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>ED freezes crypto currency, Tether worth ₹47.64 lakh</strong> - The ED initiated the money laundering investigation on the basis of an FIR registered on February 15, 2021.</p></li>
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<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Sitar symphony at palace today</strong> -</p></li>
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<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Christ College in Thrissur awarded A+ grading by SAAC</strong> -</p></li>
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<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Ukraine war: Survivors speak of horror as Zaporizhzhia convoy hit</strong> - At least 23 civilians were reportedly killed as they tried to enter Russian-held territory to deliver aid.</p></li>
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<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>US suggests Russia could be behind Nord Stream gas leaks</strong> - US Energy Secretary Jennifer Granholm tells the BBC its unlikely Nord Stream leaks are coincidence.</p></li>
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<li data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>NI Protocol: Cleverly to speak to Šefčovič amid fresh hopes for talks</strong> - Foreign Secretary James Cleverly will speak to his EU counterpart Maroš Šefčovič on Friday.</p></li>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Qubits surf sound waves between quantum nodes</strong> - Sound waves in a piezoelectric material can steer electrons to precise destinations. - <a href="https://arstechnica.com/?p=1885499">link</a></p></li>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Rocket Report: BE-4 engine breathes fire; Delta IV Heavy puts on a show</strong> - “Getting back out there might be a challenge.” - <a href="https://arstechnica.com/?p=1885393">link</a></p></li>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>FDA’s rotten definition of “healthy” food is finally getting tossed</strong> - For now, salmon, nuts are not eligible for “healthy” label, but sugary cereals are. - <a href="https://arstechnica.com/?p=1885776">link</a></p></li>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>NASA and SpaceX are studying a Hubble telescope boost, adding 15 to 20 years of life</strong> - “It’s doing great science as we speak.” - <a href="https://arstechnica.com/?p=1885669">link</a></p></li>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>This underwater camera operates wirelessly without batteries</strong> - New ultra low-power imaging method employs underwater backscatter imaging. - <a href="https://arstechnica.com/?p=1885419">link</a></p></li>
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I had never been to a brothel before, so the first thing I did was talk to several prostitutes to compare prices. One was much cheaper than the rest, and I asked her why. “I’m giving a discount right now because I’m basically relearning to have sex. I was assigned male at birth and just completed reassignment surgery. I’m looking for feedback on my performance.” I decided to give her a chance. I paid her, and we had amazing sex. She asked me to fill out a questionnaire before I left. I picked one up from the table and read the question “Were you satisfied with your trans action?”
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<p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"> submitted by <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/AnimusNoctis"> /u/AnimusNoctis </a> <br/> <span><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes/comments/xrdmcf/i_hired_a_transgender_prostitute/">[link]</a></span> <span><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes/comments/xrdmcf/i_hired_a_transgender_prostitute/">[comments]</a></span></p></li>
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<li><strong>Why did the dog cross the road, roll in the dirt, and cross the road again?</strong> - <!-- SC_OFF -->
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Because he’s a dirty, double-crossing son of a b*tch.
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<em>edit</em> And a such GOOD one, yes he IS!
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<p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"> submitted by <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/TimeLuckBug"> /u/TimeLuckBug </a> <br/> <span><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes/comments/xronj1/why_did_the_dog_cross_the_road_roll_in_the_dirt/">[link]</a></span> <span><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes/comments/xronj1/why_did_the_dog_cross_the_road_roll_in_the_dirt/">[comments]</a></span></p></li>
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His superpower is healthcare
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<p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"> submitted by <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/LiesOfTheSith"> /u/LiesOfTheSith </a> <br/> <span><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes/comments/xrfqcj/you_can_tell_that_wolverine_is_a_canadian/">[link]</a></span> <span><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes/comments/xrfqcj/you_can_tell_that_wolverine_is_a_canadian/">[comments]</a></span></p></li>
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A new monk arrives at the monastery. He is assigned to help the other monks in copying the old texts by hand. He notices, however, that they are copying copies, and not the original books.
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So, the new monk goes to the head monk to ask him about this. He points out that if there was an error in the first copy, that error would be continued in all of the other copies. The head monk says, “We have been copying from the copies for centuries, but you make a good point, my son.”
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So, he goes down into the cellar with one of the copies to check it against the original. Hours later, nobody has seen him. So, one of the monks goes downstairs to look for him. He hears sobbing coming from the back of the cellar and finds the old monk leaning over one of the original books crying. He asks what’s wrong.
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“You fuckers”, he says, with anger and sadness in his eyes, “the word was celebrate!”
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<p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"> submitted by <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/EmergencyLeading8137"> /u/EmergencyLeading8137 </a> <br/> <span><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes/comments/xrsr05/monastery_spelling_mistake/">[link]</a></span> <span><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes/comments/xrsr05/monastery_spelling_mistake/">[comments]</a></span></p></li>
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I told her that Mark Zuckerburg might be listening.
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Then she laughed, and Siri laughed, and Alexa laughed.
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<p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"> submitted by <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Clazzo524"> /u/Clazzo524 </a> <br/> <span><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes/comments/xrvia6/my_wife_asked_why_i_was_whispering/">[link]</a></span> <span><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes/comments/xrvia6/my_wife_asked_why_i_was_whispering/">[comments]</a></span></p></li>
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