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<h1 data-aos="fade-down" id="daily-dose">Daily-Dose</h1>
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<li><a href="#from-new-yorker">From New Yorker</a></li>
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<li><a href="#from-vox">From Vox</a></li>
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<li><a href="#from-the-hindu-sports">From The Hindu: Sports</a></li>
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<li><a href="#from-the-hindu-national-news">From The Hindu: National News</a></li>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Does It Matter That Neil Gorsuch Is Committed to Native American Rights?</strong> - The Justice doesn’t just join with the liberals on the bench when it comes to tribal rights; he often seems to lead them. - <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/news/daily-comment/does-it-matter-that-neil-gorsuch-is-committed-to-native-american-rights">link</a></p></li>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>After Affirmative Action Ends</strong> - The next big question for school admissions will likely be the legality of “race-neutral” methods that are designed with the continuing goal of producing diverse student bodies. - <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/news/daily-comment/after-affirmative-action-ends">link</a></p></li>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>Prigozhin Showed Russians That They Might Have a Choice</strong> - This weekend, the country saw someone other than Putin act politically and—even more important—wield force. - <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/news/our-columnists/prigozhin-showed-russians-that-they-have-a-choice">link</a></p></li>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>The Supreme Court Declines to Dismantle Democracy</strong> - The Court has consigned the independent-state-legislature theory to the “dustbin of history.” But, even as the electoral system remains intact, it’s worth reckoning with its fragility. - <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/news/daily-comment/the-supreme-court-declines-to-dismantle-democracy">link</a></p></li>
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<li><p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"><strong>What Prigozhin’s Half-Baked “Coup” Could Mean for Putin’s Rule</strong> - Although the immediate threat of revolt has been extinguished, the episode may embolden future challengers to Russia’s status quo. - <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/news/q-and-a/what-prigozhins-half-baked-coup-could-mean-for-putins-rule">link</a></p></li>
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Trans girls own the internet. Meet six you should be following.
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Dianne Brill <a href="https://www.thecut.com/article/new-york-it-girl-history.html">recently defined</a> the “it-girl” as someone who, “all of a sudden, when you leave, the party’s down.” She was talking about her scene, in her era: 1980s New York City nightlife. If there’s a parallel to today’s pandemic hangover world, it would be the endless virtual party of the internet. And on the internet, a sizable proportion of the it-girls are trans.
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“<a href="https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/kelseyweekman/juniper-twitter-troll-meme-interview">Goblin mode</a>.” <a href="https://www.papermag.com/blizzy-season-2659947233.html#rebelltitem17">Christian girl autumn</a>. <a href="https://www.nylon.com/beauty/antoni-bumba-bbl-effect-tiktok-beauty-routine">The BBL effect</a>. These iconic online phenomena were all shaped by trans women’s humor and creativity, memes millions of people quote and remix, often without ever knowing where they come from. But while trans people have never been more visible in culture, with that exposure has come a <a href="https://www.vox.com/politics/23631262/trans-bills-republican-state-legislatures">coordinated, brutal backlash</a> in both American politics and global culture war discourse. From <a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2023/04/13/trans-representation-popular-culture/">Florida governor Ron DeSantis’s book bans</a> and orders that students cannot discuss anything related to sex or gender identity to J.K. Rowling’s <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/23622610/jk-rowling-transphobic-statements-timeline-history-controversy">very public transphobia</a>, anti-trans sentiment has seeped into every corner of mainstream discourse, <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/23652475/trans-issues-in-the-media-healthcare-disinformation">including journalism</a>.
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I spoke to six of the funniest, most trendsetting trans women on social media right now about what it’s like to be at the forefront of culture while also being the targets of daily harassment online. “Trans people have such a beautiful wealth of life experience,” explains influencer Uniekue (pronounced “unique”). “We’re so in tune with ourselves — you have to be as a trans person. There’s so much beauty that comes from knowing oneself and loving oneself and choosing oneself in spite of the sea of voices telling you that you’re not worthy or that you don’t deserve to be here. The world only benefits from being privy to that beauty.” Welcome to the era of the trans it-girl.
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<strong>Antoni Bumba/</strong><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@antonibumba?lang=en"><strong><span class="citation" data-cites="antonibumba">@antonibumba</span></strong></a><strong>, 25, New York City</strong><br/><em>Content creator, entrepreneur, art collector, artist</em>
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<strong>How did you first come up with the idea for </strong><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GJS1YuKDC9k"><strong>the BBL effect</strong></a><strong>?</strong>
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I moved to New York City after the pandemic cleared up a bit and I was living with my two roommates. I had no fucking money and I was super broke. We were sitting at the dining room table and we were going back and forth about these people who were running the internet at the time — the <a href="https://www.glamour.com/story/ludi-delfino-revolve-model">Revolve girls</a>, for example — and then we started talking about lip filler and <a href="https://www.vox.com/the-goods/22598377/bbl-brazilian-butt-lift-miami-cost-tiktok">BBLs</a> [Brazilian butt lifts]. It was less about the surgery and more about the lifestyle, the attitude that they portrayed. Then I heard this sound on TikTok and I was like, “I can make a really funny video out of this.” And then I really ran with it. So many people think it’s about getting the work done. But it’s all about the energy — it was a way for me to display a certain type of femininity in a way that was powerful and brandable and strong.
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<strong>A lot of people who go viral on TikTok turn into one-hit wonders. How did you build it into a broader career? </strong>
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I went into the industry and I became friends with all different types of people in my community — Black creators, trans creators, and then also white girl creators. I wanted to know who was making what kind of money, who people are connected to, and what is the climate in this industry. It took me a couple of months, right around the time I met my manager, but I started to understand the weight of what it meant to have a media space. I don’t want to become one of those people who does so well in their career, but doesn’t have a personality and has never touched grass a day in their life. So I keep regular people who work real nine-to-five jobs around me to keep me really grounded, as corny as that sounds.
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Three days ago I met Solange Knowles backstage at a music festival and I was talking to her for like, seven minutes about braiding hair. I didn’t even tell her what my name was, we were just shooting the shit. I was like, what the fuck? There was also a moment where I invested in a piece of art by <a href="https://www.thecut.com/article/nan-goldin-documentary-all-the-beauty-and-the-bloodshed-profile.html">Nan Goldin</a>. It was a photo of this trans burlesque dancer in Paris, and I met her a couple weeks after I bought it at a charity event, and I’m the only trans girl who has ever bought a piece of art from her. I feel like the more of us that are in the industry, being seen, putting a spotlight on ourselves, the more we’re actively changing the world.
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My mom was the coolest ’90s it-girl. She set the tone of the kind of woman I wanted to be: It’s about style but it’s also about unconventionality, and not being the kind of woman who prioritizes being coddled over being understood. I always was into really cool women like that: Angelina Jolie, Vivica A. Fox, Sharon Stone, Brandy. They’re all gorgeous, they fit the beauty standard, and they weren’t trans, but it’s what I could see, and I picked a part of them that empowered me the most.
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My therapist gave me the best advice ever. He told me, “You don’t have to accept it.” And I don’t accept it when people are hateful or give criticism that’s not constructive. I block people for anything. The other day, I blocked somebody because I posted this video on my story of Beyoncé, and someone replied to the story and said, “LOL what drag queen is that?” I blocked them so fast, because I felt like it was disrespectful. I’m not even gonna sit and try to think about the semantics. I was like, “Yeah, fuck you.”
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I want to take over the world. I want to have a beauty brand, I want to have a chain restaurant, I want to have a talk show, I want to tour around the world and perform really, really beautiful and expansive music. When people see my face — hair, makeup, beard — and when they see how I identify myself and how I carry myself, I want to do enough so that when I die, this whole issue of thinking women are less than or that queer people aren’t relatable or that some people don’t belong in this world, I pray that I spend my entire life bleeding all that shit from culture, so when I’m dead, it’ll die with me.
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When I was younger I was so obsessed with Kristen Wiig on <em>Saturday Night Live.</em> I’ve always felt so connected to her — the Target lady, or the little hands. If I’m gonna imitate anyone’s comedic style, it’s gonna be Kristen Wiig.
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I hate to say it, but I do get recognized a lot. The other day I was walking to the bar to get chicken tenders and someone just leaned out of their car and said, “TikTok!” If I’m ever on the L train and I see someone with blue hair I’m like, “Oh, God.” In my immediate area I’m either going to Popeyes or I’m either going to Dunkin’ Donuts, but if I’m walking around Soho on my break it’s like, “Can we get a photo together? You’re such a star!” and I’m like, “I’m on shift right now, baby.”
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I grew up in poverty, but I grew up around Long Island style, which is basically like, you go to the mall and you get a Michael Kors bag. So [my style is] that, plus being 12 and in middle school. I’m literally wearing a Hilary Duff tour shirt from 2004 right now.
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I’m not like Dixie D’Amelio, I’m not doing the “Renegade.” I would like to be booked, I would like to have an income from all this stuff. I don’t want to be stuck in this cycle of bad retail job to bad retail job. I see these people who have fewer followers than me and they’re flying to Cancun so that they can do the “Renegade” on a beach. I’m like, “Girl, what’s going on? Where’s my flight?” At the end of the day, I’m still just that little broke girl from Long Island. I could be in a room with a whole bunch of big-name people, and I go home and my card’s getting declined at Dunkin’ Donuts.
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I’ve been trying to figure out how to monetize. I’ve been doing a lot more gigs lately, and it’s been a lot more modeling as opposed to comedic [gigs]. Which is crazy to me, because I feel like I spent a lot of my transition being super insecure, and I pride myself more on my personality and my sense of humor than my looks. So it’s kind of validating because it’s like, “Oh, I’m not only the pretty girl in the room, I’m also the funny girl!”
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A lot of sponsored content is like, “Here’s a day in my life!” and it’s just this white girl in her kitchen pressing the button on her Keurig. I can’t remove myself enough from reality to be able to do that. I have to make a joke out of it. I’d be like, “So these motherfucking bitches sent me this gay coffee concentrate and I’m gonna drink it and shit my pants.”
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<strong>Selyna Brillare/</strong><a href="https://www.instagram.com/trapselyna/?hl=en"><strong><span class="citation" data-cites="trapselyna">@trapselyna</span></strong></a><strong>, 22, New York City</strong><br/><em>Artist, content creator, part-time supermodel</em>
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I’ve been making videos on the internet since I was 14. I’ve had spikes in popularity here and there, and during Covid I started making TikToks. I always had a background in music, I was very big into musical theater in middle and high school. A lot of my friends growing up made music — we were 13, 14, in recording studios. I was always dating rappers and being in the studio with them. So then two years ago I woke up one morning and I was thinking about a song, and I had a friend drive me up to the Bronx, because a friend’s boyfriend had a studio out there that we could use. I went into the studio and I made a song. Every dude in the studio after I came off the booth was impressed by me. They were like, “Oh my god, how long have you been making music?” And I was like, “Today.”
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Right now I’m promoting my EP, <a href="https://open.spotify.com/album/61kobZtQwLw5cpX3dG7Pkn?si=VgOXJn9pRsiv4c7Jgw3LYg"><em>Lyna’s Summa</em></a>. It’s a mash of different sounds, but the most consistent sound that you can hear throughout is that you can dance to it. “Leche de Tigre” is my first song I’ve ever made in Spanish. Basically, the direct translation is “gangster cum.” A lot of people think I’m talking about a tiger, but it’s a Spanish term for a bad boy or a gangster. It’s a very sexually explicit song — the music video is shot like an early 2000s porno. A lot of it has to do with trans culture, because a lot of trans women get into sex work and I wanted to show that I may not be doing sex work myself necessarily, but it’s still a big part of the trans culture of how we survive. If I was in a different circumstance, I probably would be doing sex work, you know?
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To be honest with you, I’m not very materialistic. As long as I can buy everything that I want to buy, if I feel like I’m okay with things. I’m just not somebody who makes it a very big part of who I am. But I do believe that I should get paid. When I get booked for a gig to go perform, I get paid very well, along with some influencing jobs here and there. So I feel pretty good about myself. Not that I manage any of that money well.
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I actually don’t celebrate Pride, which is ironic. Pride is amazing. I feel like if you want to celebrate it, celebrate it. But it doesn’t celebrate enough of the women that have fought for those rights. Pride is very gay men-centered more than it is about lesbians or women or anybody besides gay men, and it’s kind of been co-opted by straight cis women to do whatever they want. We obviously celebrate in our own different ways, but when we see campaigns, it’s a lot of gay men more than it is the actual pillars of our community. I’m not saying that gay men don’t contribute to that, but they kind of ran with it.
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I want to see more trans women who don’t have to perform hyperfemininity, period. I think it’s so funny how when we don’t want to perform it anymore, we’re scrutinized not only by our own community, but people outside of our community, which is another reason why I’ve kind of stopped performing hyperfemininity. I’ve literally thrown out everything in my wardrobe that’s hyper-femme. I’m going to wear baggy clothes and be a tomboy. I’m a girly girl in some aspects, but I’m a girl from New York, I want to wear my baggy jeans and my Jordans. I feel like I’m not allowed to do that because I quote-unquote “look too much like a boy” when I dress like that. I think that’s very unfair, because trans women can be butch, too. It doesn’t mean that we’re men. I want to see more stud trans women. Being a trans woman just means that you’re a woman, and your expression of your gender identity is something completely different. It’s not about wearing makeup and getting a whole bunch of surgeries, and I feel like people only want to see that from trans women, and it’s damaging for trans women. At the same time, [hyperfemininity] is our only defense mechanism in order to be able to pass and survive in the real world.
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This may sound a little crazy, but I don’t think I’ve had an it-girl moment. I feel like everything I’ve ever done is so main character energy. So for me, it’s just kind of like, this has been my life. I’ve been that girl, it’s just now the internet knows about it.
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I would probably say “<a href="https://twitter.com/JUNlPER/status/1494032838622072834">goblin mode</a>.” I didn’t coin it — I originally saw it on a Reddit post a while ago in like an r/relationships post and I thought it was really funny. I was like, “this has potential,” and then I made up that Kanye West post about going goblin mode. It got <a href="https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/goblin-mode-selected-as-oxfords-2022-word-of-the-year-180981245/">Oxford Dictionaries’ word of the year</a>!
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<strong>I’m partial to the </strong><a href="https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-news/snickers-dick-vein-dont-let-this-flop-podcast-1343163/"><strong>Snickers “dick vein” thing</strong></a><strong>.</strong>
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The dick vein thing was more fun for me, because there were right-wingers getting really mad about it. The Snickers dick vein has always been a Reddit meme, but I made it political — I did a Tucker Carlson spin on it where it’s like, “Woke mobs have taken away the beloved Snickers dick vein” just like he does with M&Ms, and it somehow caught hold. There was a right-wing writer who was really pissed off, and the comments on the Fox News website were full of boomers genuinely getting mad about the dick vein. They were like, “Everything’s going WOKE these days!” But they’re reading about something that’s not real.
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It’s very easy because they get mad about literally anything. They got mad about like, <a href="https://www.vox.com/money/2023/4/12/23680135/bud-light-boycott-dylan-mulvaney-travis-tritt-trans">Dylan Mulvaney holding a Bud Light</a>. One way that I push back on hateful people is that they all have one insecurity that really gets to them. So I try to find their biggest insecurity and exploit it because that’s what they do to us. I realized, “Oh, these are some of the most insecure people on the planet if in their free time all they do is go online and be hateful.” It’s not going to fix anything, but if someone comes at you, try to find their insecurity. It works. In my mind I have a list of six big right-wingers and which buttons to push to get them mad.
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Pretty much everything Elon has done has incentivized harassment, and he’s given people who just want to harass get visibility. To be fair, I harass who I view are bad people, but I personally think me harassing Lindsey Graham for being against abortion rights is a bit different than a weird 60-year-old blue check insulting me because I’m trans. <a href="https://www.vox.com/technology/2023/4/29/23702979/bluesky-twitter-elon-musk-jack-dorsey-chrissy-teigen-aoc-dril-decentralized">Bluesky</a> reminds me of what Twitter used to be like: It’s a smaller platform, there aren’t really reactionary right-wingers, there’s not really discourse, it’s not super intense. I personally really like it and use it all the time. It’s just a good vibe.
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I occasionally do it, but for me, it’s not important. If I change my profile picture to my face, people are like, “Put it back to the worm!” Especially as I’ve grown in size, I post pictures of myself far less on Twitter, since Elon Musk has become very, very vitriolic, and just <a href="https://www.thenation.com/article/society/elon-musk-transphobia-twitter/">downright viciously mean to trans people and queer people</a>.
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At this point, I’ve taken so much harassment and I’ve been targeted by some of the worst people online that it really doesn’t bother me anymore. Like, I posted a picture of me in a tank top the other day and of course there were maybe like, 20 transphobes in the replies insulting me. It’s sad, but it’s the reality of being trans, and to an extent being a woman online.
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<strong>Uniekue/</strong><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@uniekue?lang=en"><strong><span class="citation" data-cites="uniekue">@uniekue</span></strong></a><strong>, prefers not to share her age, New York City</strong><br/><em>Professional bad bitch, influencer, stylist, model, dancer, host</em>
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It was right before the pandemic hit in February 2020. I had a friend be like, “If you don’t join TikTok, I will ruin your life.” I opened it, and I wasn’t really feeling it — like, why are there 13-year-olds dancing? I’m fully in college studying business and economics, what does this have to do with me? And then the pandemic hits. I’d always wanted to be an Instagram baddie, and I saw a video on TikTok where it was like, “You can twerk to anything.” And I literally talk about this all the time, this is something I’ve basically written a dissertation on within my friendship circles. So I made this cute video of me twerking to Tchaikovsky’s Nutcracker and it went viral.
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I was born in Atlanta, Georgia, and around midway through my childhood, my family moved to Saudi Arabia. My parents work in medicine, and for this six-year span we lived in Saudi Arabia, Nigeria, and Dubai, and then I moved back to the states for high school and college, and I’ve been here ever since.
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It’s interesting, because in societies where queer people are not visible, people don’t read femininity as queerness, they read it as eclecticism. I also didn’t have the language to communicate what it was that I was feeling, but I also think it was really great for me because I wasn’t so encumbered by the concepts of, “Who do I like? What gender am I presenting as?” It allowed me to focus on experiencing rather than my perception of who I was. The difficulty of being a queer child in the Western world is you have to confront the queer parts of yourself early on, even when you don’t have the language to understand what it is. I don’t envy the experience of young, queer, Black, and trans children because it’s so difficult to navigate the world while feeling as though eyes are watching you, or that you need to have eyes watching you to be worth any value when you’re literally 13. You should be playing with Legos, not worrying about how you get 20,000 followers.
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The first thing I do as soon as an inquiry comes in is Google. If there’s anything that comes up that’s like, an oil spill or environmental scandal or a discrimination case, I’m like, I don’t think this is a great fit for me. And if there’s no queer or trans representation within their corporate structure or their online presence, I also err on the side of caution. I try and gauge whether this is like a real thing or just a PR move. I’m really blessed to be at a point where I’m able to have that discernment and the security to turn certain deals down. When you are a queer person who is brought into mainstream spaces, sometimes there is this pressure to perform, and a pressure to shrink yourself and be more palatable for brands and executives or whoever the case may be. But I think that we do ourselves a disservice by not showing the full scope of our humanity in every space, because I think that until everyone can exist truly and freely as they are, we will never all be truly free.
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I never imagined my life would be like this. I was groomed from age 4 to be a doctor, so I just thought that I would be either a mundane doctor, or possibly the surgeon general. Now that I’m at this place of being really hot and hyper-visible, it’s thrown my world upside down and I’m like, “Okay, now these dreams I had when I was younger are actually possible.”
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This “old money,” “quiet luxury” aesthetic is unbelievably tired and morose, and I’m over it. Please, let’s be serious and move on.
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Crop tops. And not just crop tops, but cropped everything. Like, why is your stomach <em>not</em> out?
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I was really against it for a long time, because when I was in high school it was still Musical.ly and that was for literal children to do lip-synching videos. 2020 was a really crazy, terrible time; it was lockdown and I got kicked out of my parents’ place, so I was like, whatever, let’s get on TikTok. I actually had an account before my current one that got to like, 70,000 followers, but I ended up getting banned. I did my first ever live[stream] and I got swarmed by transphobe bots. Overnight I got six videos reported and taken down and then woke up to check my account, and it was gone. So then I pretty much rebuilt it from scratch.
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It’s never a complete stranger coming up to me. But it’s funny, I have a friend in LA who’s a drag queen and she tells me all the time, “All the queens out here know who you are.”
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So my area is very punk, a lot of non-binary people. That’s kind of par for the course for an artsy college town. But in Dallas, that’s where you have the really huge drag scene, a really big goth scene, and a lot of like, super doll-y, hyperfeminine trans girls, so I love to go down there when I have the time. I don’t self-identify as a goth, but this girl messaged me and asked if I wanted to go to this goth club. I had never had a good club experience, it was always horrible for me. But honest to God, it was the best club environment. People are actually dancing, and people are really, really nice, and it’s usually pretty safe.
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Trans girls, at least in Texas, tend to spawn in the least-expected places. We go wherever we’re accepted. If you go to popular clubs in Dallas, you might get kicked out or people will give you dirty looks. There’s one area where a lot of my friends go, but if I show up with my other trans friends, it’s clear you are not welcome. So the goth club became a place where so many trans girls flocked to because even the gay neighborhood isn’t really super trans. It’s very much a gay man’s place.
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<strong>I loved your </strong><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@kay_wow/video/7228633592211967274"><strong>one video</strong></a><strong> about how you were “a razor’s edge between what is acceptable and what is rockabilly.” How would you describe your style?</strong>
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I don’t love the whole movement of just grabbing an aesthetic and embodying it. I try to touch on inspirations from my real life. I’m very much a Texas girl, so I’ve got my little cowgirl boots but I like the goth look too, so I have a lot of black and a lot of metal hardware. I’m actively purging anything that gives rockabilly because I don’t feel any connection to that. I could not rock a beehive. If I had to give it a word that I know the TikTok girls would eat up, I would call it “whimsigoth,” but I’m never gonna say that publicly.
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At first, we were making plans to pick up and get out of here. I am still going to leave Texas someday because there are states where I can go and get FFS [facial feminization surgery] covered by state insurance, and you can’t do that in Texas. When everything was starting, it was really frightening, but as far as I can see, it really does seem like it’s not a super popular voter issue, and it’s not panning out in the way that I think a lot of these lawmakers were hoping that it would. I didn’t even expect the protests. I thought they would be like, “No more trans people anywhere!” and most people would just be like, “Okay,” but it hasn’t really worked out like that. So I’m honestly hopeful, even though right now, particularly for trans kids, it is still really dark.
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But it’s not like we’re gonna go anywhere. Trans women have existed just in America since the beginning, from the 1800s to the ’50s and the ’60s and through the AIDS crisis. The girls before us have been through so much shit, and you can still find some of those old ’70s girls on TikTok talking about, “Back in the day, we used to go to a motel and they would inject us with fucking wall sealant to get our butt bigger.” I will never have to face that. So if they can get through that time, I can get through this time.
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<em>This column was first published in the Vox Culture newsletter. </em><a href="https://www.vox.com/pages/newsletters"><em>Sign up here</em></a><em> so you don’t miss the next one, plus get newsletter exclusives. </em>
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While tech workers are dealing with pay stagnation, <a href="https://www.vox.com/technology/2023/4/21/23692515/tech-workers-software-engineers-layoffs-meta-coding">layoffs</a>, and generally less demand for their skills than they’d enjoyed for the past decade, the <a href="https://www.vox.com/2023/4/28/23702644/artificial-intelligence-machine-learning-technology">artificial intelligence</a> specialist has become the new “it” girl in Silicon Valley.
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“All of the products that we’re working on, that we’re seeing today, are shifting toward that AI-powered type of operation,” said Zac Brown, founder of the AI startup <a href="https://nonprofitshq.com/">NonprofitsHQ</a>. “This is a rough time to be a regular software engineer.”
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While tech companies and investors pull back seemingly everywhere else in tech, money is <a href="https://www.axios.com/2023/06/21/softbank-ai-offensive">still flowing into AI</a>, which the industry sees as the next big thing. That’s meant outsize demand, pay, and perks for people who can facilitate that kind of work. This situation is incredibly attractive to people who’ve recently been laid off in tech or who worry that their tech jobs don’t have the upward mobility they used to. To capitalize on this, people in adjacent tech careers are attempting to reposition themselves where the good jobs are. Short of getting another degree, many are hoping to do so with on-the-job training, boot camps, and self-education.
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“If you take a look at job openings right now on job boards, the job listings are more emphasized on software engineers who have a background in AI,” technical recruiter Eddiana Rosen told Vox. (Data from the salary site <a href="https://www.salary.com/">Salary.com</a> showed that in the 12 months ending May 31, 2023, employers sought AI-related skills in 1.1 million job postings, more than twice the amount for the same period a year earlier.)
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People with AI skills are paid on average 27 percent more than typical tech workers, according to data furnished by the compensation software company <a href="https://www.payscale.com/">Payscale</a>. The median annual salary for an AI engineer was $243,500 in May, according to data by the tech career comparison site <a href="https://www.levels.fyi/">Levels.fyi</a>, compared with $166,750 for non-AI engineers. And their pay is growing at a faster rate. <a href="https://www.comprehensive.io/">Comprehensive.io</a>, which tracks compensation across more than 3,000 tech companies, found that pay for senior software engineers who specialize in AI and machine learning grew 4 percent since the beginning of the year, while pay for senior software engineers overall stayed flat. <a href="https://www.a.team/">A.Team</a>, a firm that connects groups of tech talent with companies looking to hire their services, said 30 percent of their new pipeline over the last month was AI-related, a fivefold jump over the previous three months.
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In contrast to crypto or web3, few people think AI will be a flash in the pan. Just how prevalent it becomes, of course, will depend largely on how profitable business use cases for it are. Already, tech workers are <a href="https://www.wsj.com/articles/dropbox-to-cut-16-of-workforce-ca3a39e7">losing jobs to AI</a>, so many figure they might as well get ahead of it and get in on the action. They’re turning to communities on <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/cscareerquestions/comments/1415i98/want_to_pivot_from_mainframe_to_aiml_engineering">Reddit</a> as well as to friends and colleagues already in the field to find out how they can pivot to<strong> </strong>lucrative jobs in AI rather than having their jobs replaced by AI.
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For Brown, who is no longer looking for work since he founded his own AI startup, selling himself was a matter of advertising skills he already had and that he’d picked up on the job. A previous employer gave him the opportunity and the time to work with another team that was working with machine learning and AI, so that he could fill in his skills gap. Brown said that while a boot camp or online course might provide a good introduction to the skills needed for AI, the best instruction comes from working on it yourself.
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“A lot of that is going to come in actually doing it, actually working on these systems, messing it up, making mistakes, learning from those, and pushing forward,” he said.
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Taylor, a software developer in North Carolina who asked that we not use his full name so as not to jeopardize his employment, plans to moonlight at a friend’s AI startup, where he’s hoping he’ll be able to learn from a back-end engineer there who’s experienced in machine learning. The goal isn’t to become an AI engineer per se, but rather to be able to do his job better, since he believes AI will creep into regular software development work in the near future.
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Eric Lamy, a customer data product manager who typically works alongside engineers, is trying to develop his knowledge around AI governance because he sees it as a future need at his current job, where he sits on a corporate <a href="https://www.vox.com/cyber-security">cybersecurity</a> task force and where there’s a lot of interest in how to responsibly deploy AI. To up his understanding of the new technology, the 37-year-old is using a body of knowledge <a href="https://iapp.org/news/a/iapp-releases-ai-governance-professional-body-of-knowledge/">document</a> released by the International Association of Privacy Professionals, which will soon provide certification and training for AI governance professionals, to guide his independent study.
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“It’s not so much that the transition is relying on a gap that’s in my current career; it just doesn’t really exist yet as a function,” Lamy said. “I see this as a place where people, who are able to get on board early and learn some of these frameworks and apply this governance mindset, have an opportunity to really do some good work.”
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<a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/avidunixuser/">Nitin Pathak</a>, a data scientist at <a href="https://www.vox.com/microsoft">Microsoft</a>, recently got a six-month professional <a href="https://em-executive.berkeley.edu/professional-certificate-machine-learning-artificial-intelligence">certification</a> in machine learning and AI from Berkeley so he could perform better at his job. “It really helped me draw those connections between machine learning and AI concepts, and which models would make sense for different business situations,” he said.
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“I’ve been working in technology for several decades, and in today’s world, it’s so clear that we’ll all have many careers,” he added. “I love technology and I don’t want to be obsolete. I want to be on the cutting edge.”
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Nicole Hedley, a 30-year-old fullstack product engineer who runs her own consulting company that specializes in generative AI, had taken artificial intelligence and machine learning courses while getting her computer science degree. She’s also had plenty of hands-on exposure to new AI projects, especially in the last year when they’ve dominated her workload. Even still, she’s constantly trying to keep up with new advances in AI.
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Alexander Whedon, a software engineer who specializes in AI, was <a href="https://www.vox.com/technology/2023/4/18/23688627/meta-layoffs-mark-zuckerberg-facebook-instagram-whatsapp">laid off from Meta</a> earlier this year, despite his skills. But now he considers that loss a “blessing in disguise.” As a freelancer, Whedon, also 30, gets to work on a wider variety of projects for a wide variety of companies.
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“I enjoy this work so much more and I honestly make more now,” Whedon, who advocates for trying to build your own AI projects rather than going through boot camps, said.
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“The future of any company isn’t sure,” he added. “But the future potential of AI I think is very potent.”
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<em>A version of this story was also published in the Vox technology newsletter. </em><a href="https://www.vox.com/pages/newsletters"><em><strong>Sign up here</strong></em></a><em> so you don’t miss the next one!</em>
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<em>Frog and Toad</em>, as adapted for the AppleTV+ show named after them. | AppleTV+
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It’s fitting that the first story of Arnold Lobel’s first Frog and Toad book — a pairing that has seen a memetic cultural resurgence in the years since the pandemic — is called simply, “Spring.” Even three years on, it feels like we count the months now starting from March. Frog, as he attempts to entice Toad out of bed after his winter hibernation, speaks similarly:
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“What you see is the clear warm light of April. And it means that we can begin a whole new year together, Toad. Think of it,” said Frog.
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In 2020, spring had never seemed stranger: trees alive with fresh buds, but the streets empty of cars; when you’d skitter all the way across the street if you heard feet approaching from any direction, the presence of another human a daylight jumpscare.
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It was only a few months later, in the summer of 2020, that I saw the indelible illustration adorning the cover of <em>Frog and Toad Together</em> — the pair riding back-to-chest on a two-seater bicycle — <a href="https://twitter.com/irlolive/status/1287102369680023552?s=20">memed</a> with the all-caps <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/pics/comments/dktxb/indeed_fuck_em/">FUCK THE POLICE</a> beneath their pedalling feet. It was in 2021 that I spied <a href="https://twitter.com/FrogandToadbot/status/1640240629107269633?s=20">the image of them</a> from “Alone,” sitting above a pond on a rock facing away from us, Frog with an arm around Toad, Toad with his arm resting on Frog’s lower back. (On Tumblr, it was tagged “me and who.”). Then the former coworker <a href="https://twitter.com/FrogandToadbot/status/1638338085573500928?s=20">retweeted</a> a snippet of the book:
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“I will just have to sit here and do nothing,” said Toad.
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But really I knew that Frog and Toad had taken over social media when I stumbled across a TikTok from May 2022 captioned “<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@indiarosecrawford/video/7101689573729701126">Knitting a tiny stripey jumper for froggy</a>.” In the 46-second video, a little green yarn frog with big wet eyes plays in the background while fiber artist India Rose Crawford lovingly makes his clothes. Even before the heartsickness inspired by the sun-soaked picnic scene at the end of the video, when Frog tugs the sweater over his head, it’s enough to make one’s eyes misty — Pavlovian response to the opening theme from <em>UP</em> aside.
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A year later, “Knitting a tiny stripey jumper for froggy” has over 10 million views on TikTok, and even before Crawford knitted Toad in <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@indiarosecrawford/video/7106916377994300677?lang=en">a follow-up video</a>, people in the comments on both that platform and on Instagram, where she cross-posts to 830,000 followers, were talking about Lobel’s book series.
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Knitting a tiny stripey jumper for froggy ✨ <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/frog?refer=embed" target="_blank" title="frog">#frog</a> <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/knittok?refer=embed" target="_blank" title="knittok">#knittok</a> <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/fibreart?refer=embed" target="_blank" title="fibreart">#fibreart</a> <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/knitting?refer=embed" target="_blank" title="knitting">#knitting</a>
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<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/music/Married-Life-6744202642718722050?refer=embed" target="_blank" title="♬ Married Life - Michael Giacchino">♬ Married Life - Michael Giacchino</a>
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“When I posted the frog video, so many people in the comments were just like, ‘Frog needs a friend!’ ‘Please make Frog a Toad!’ ‘Please make Toad!’” she says. “So I just had to do it. I was like, ‘Yeah, it would be so nice for Frog to have someone to go and do little adventures with.’”
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Crawford was a bit baffled by the attention. She didn’t originally conceive of her Froggy as the children’s book character (she didn’t grow up reading the series, which she believes is “more popular in America’’ than her native UK), and had even posted a similar video of a <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@indiarosecrawford/video/7086441594928368902?lang=en">rat getting a sweater</a> just weeks prior, to much milder delight. Yet her creation clearly struck a nerve with scores of people hollowed out by years of isolation and government neglect, yearning for intimacy; particularly, the queer intimacy they imagined Frog and Toad shared. (Within eight months, Apple TV+ would announce a new animated Frog and Toad series was coming to streaming and LGBTQ-focused publication <em>Them </em>would proclaim that “<a href="https://www.them.us/story/frog-and-toad-apple-tv-adaptation">Everyone’s Favorite Queer Couple</a>” was coming to TV.) What was it about life in the 2020s that put these stories back into the public’s imagination, and how did Frog and Toad become queer icons to an entire group of people seemingly overnight?
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Silas, 24, was one of many people who took to social media during the pandemic to replace everyday social interactions — <a href="https://www.vox.com/recode/22295131/social-media-use-pandemic-covid-19-instagram-tiktok">even more so than usual</a>. As people moved back to their hometowns and reignited childhood interests, a new type of account dedicated to posting bits of media ephemera (<a href="https://twitter.com/botvirginia">lines from literature</a>, <a href="https://twitter.com/mitskilyricsbot">lyrics from artists</a>, <a href="https://twitter.com/OnePerfectShot">stills from films</a>) became increasingly popular on Twitter. Silas’s <a href="https://twitter.com/FrogandToadbot?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor">Frog and Toad Bot</a> joined their ranks in December 2020.
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Silas, who asked to be referred to by his first name, had been attending community college right before the pandemic hit when he suddenly found himself at loose ends at home with his family and was inspired to reread the <em>Frog and Toad</em> books after scrolling past those bots. Flipping through the stories, he thought about the comfort he derived from his father reading the series to him growing up, and made Frog and Toad Bot to share that comfort with other people feeling lost and alone at the end of an interminable year.
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Across the four Frog and Toad books published in the 1970s, author and illustrator Arnold Lobel wrote with real humor about everyday adult problems (losing a button, not wanting to clean the house, feeling overwhelmed by a to-do list) and the desire to be seen, understood, and loved through your best and worst moments, without trivializing those insecurities. There’s plenty to love about the books as an adult reader, maybe even more to love, but Silas was also moved by context he didn’t grasp as a child.
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“As I looked back into the books,” he says, “I was reading about Arnold Lobel and his life and the fact that he was a gay man. His daughter had talked about how she felt like that was actually kind of him coming out in his own way because Frog and Toad have this ‘best friendship,’ but also, you can see in the books, it’s a partnership. As a gay man, I was really drawn to that.”
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This admission caused a wave of <a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/2016/06/how-frog-and-toad-author-arnold-lobel-explored-gay-intimacy-in-his-work.html">media coverage</a>, but many regular fans (even queer ones) were slower to catch on with the numbers and enthusiasm that characterize active fandom. By the time Silas created Frog and Toad Bot in December 2020, coincidentally the 50-year anniversary of <em>Frog and Toad Are Friends</em>, pandemic interest for new and old readers had reached <a href="https://trends.google.com/trends/explore?date=2016-01-01%202023-04-11&geo=US&q=%2Fm%2F08pnk_&hl=en">a sustained, all-time high</a>. But more importantly, he created a nexus for fans on Twitter to engage in community at a time when frustration over trite LGBTQ+ representation in popular media — from the <a href="https://www.them.us/story/elemental-disney-pixar-nonbinary-character-lake-ripple">endless</a> <a href="https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2019/12/are-we-really-going-to-pretend-the-gay-kiss-in-the-rise-of-skywalker-matters">parade</a> of “<a href="https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/klaud-live-slug-reaction">First Gay [Insert Whatever]</a>” <a href="https://slate.com/culture/2017/03/beauty-and-the-beast-s-lefou-will-have-exclusively-gay-moment-director-bill-condon-tells-attitude.html">Disney</a> <a href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/danidiplacido/2021/05/24/how-many-times-is-disney-going-to-introduce-their-first-gay-character/?sh=64bafc035204">marketing</a> to writing that didn’t engage as thoughtfully with queer characters and their plot lines as their cis-hetero counterparts — <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2020/11/24/21570507/happiest-season-review-hulu-kristen-stewart-rom-com-lesbian">drove discussion</a> around what <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2020/2/19/21137213/portrait-of-a-lady-on-fire-celine-sciamma-interview">better storytelling</a> <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2020/7/17/21324902/the-old-guard-review-gay-song-of-achilles">could look like</a>. Seen through adult eyes and with a richer understanding of one’s identity than likely possessed during those Easy Readers days, Frog and Toad’s cozy domesticity, trust, and frank repartee looked an awful lot like two gay men basking in the steady glow of long-time romantic love, the kind sorely missing from those anemic efforts at queer inclusivity.
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“I don’t think I grew up reading it as incredibly queer-coded because I didn’t grow up knowing queer adults in my life,” says Asha Thanki. <a href="https://ashathanki.com/">A novelist</a> and essay writer, Thanki shared a love of Lobel’s books with her sister growing up; during the first pandemic winter, she found herself sending tweets from Frog and Toad Bot to <a href="https://www.thefourthriver.com/o12-content/2022/4/27/bad-friend">far-flung friends</a> while living alone in a new city. <a href="https://www.vox.com/2018/9/19/17877146/bert-and-ernie-gay-history-controversy-explained">Like Bert and Ernie</a>, Thanki says, her interpretation of Frog and Toad’s relationship changed as her own understanding of her sexuality evolved. “As I learned more about me, but also saw more queer adults,” she says, “I think then you start to be like, ‘Oh shit, that’s exactly what it could look like.’”
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<em>Frog and Toad</em>, while depicting nothing as overt as wedding bands, “I love you,” or lip contact, is nonetheless a deep portrayal of lifelong partnership. Rob Hoegee, the showrunner and head writer of the animated <em>Frog and Toad</em> show released on Apple TV+ in April, says that his read on the relationship was “a deep, loving, committed friendship that goes beyond all boundaries.” A large portion of the show’s animators, artists, and pre-production crew all across the board who identify as LGBTQ+, though, brought their own experiences and interpretation to their work. (One might argue that relationships that are intimate beyond easily categorizable labels are inherently queer.)
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“I never really saw it as a romantic love, but it really does kind of show that it is possible and a beautiful thing when you can have that deep of a friendship,” Hoegee says. “It’s a rare and wonderful thing between any two people, but especially when there’s so many differences between Frog and Toad.”
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That’s something Thanki echoes. “Toad and Frog are so different from each other in so many ways, but there’s this type of understanding,” she says. “There’s this type of intimate knowledge of the person you’re spending most of your time with that I think is something one aches for.”
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By the time Crawford, the TikTok creator from Cornwall, UK, who sells knitted forest creatures on Etsy, tenderly <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@indiarosecrawford/video/7106916377994300677?lang=en">knitted a Toad companion</a> for her Frog and staged them on a picnic date in 2022, the queer read on their relationship seemed to be the dominant interpretation — at least among those inclined to post about Frog and Toad on social media.
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“To me, they’re just a couple of little gay frogs in love,” she says. But what Crawford likes most about them, she says, is that whoever you are — overzealous and nurturing like Frog, recalcitrant but stalwart like Toad — you “can see yourself in them.”
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Without dialogue and the expressive faces of Lobel’s depictions to convey their personalities, however, the appeal of Crawford’s work is the curated atmosphere: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@indiarosecrawford/video/7110596107331243269?lang=en">a steaming cup of tea</a> served in a thimble, the <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@indiarosecrawford/video/7128735443604081926?lang=en">orange glow of a sunset</a> as they reach for each other’s hands, the two reading a book <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/Cqx860oIz3h/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==">among primroses</a>. Watching one of her videos is like a half-minute reminder to take a deep breath, that attention paid to the simplest rituals is a way to make meaning out of otherwise disorganized days.
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These are largely the patterns of Frog’s and Toad’s lives in the stories, when the act of making cookies or going on a long walk or waiting for a letter to arrive can consume a whole day. Replace some of those activities with their 2020 equivalent of baking sourdough bread or scheduling Zoom happy hours with loved ones, and the idea that people saw themselves in Frog and Toad during these years becomes clearer.
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<a href="https://trends.google.com/trends/explore?date=today%205-y&geo=US&q=cottagecore&hl=en">Around the same time</a> people’s interest in Lobel’s characters was growing on social media, so was “cottagecore,” a hashtag <a href="https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Cottagecore">popularized</a> on image-based platforms like TikTok, Instagram, and Tumblr. Crawford occasionally <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@indiarosecrawford/video/7095419642394578182?lang=en">tags</a> her <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@indiarosecrawford/video/7233032363431775515?lang=en">videos</a> as cottagecore and says that, for her, the concept “embodies that kind of simple life: taking joy in small things, being connected with nature.”
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“Cottagecore for me is more than just the aesthetic; it’s also a feeling. It’s kind and it’s gentle and slow and quite different to a lot of what modern-day life is like,” Crawford says.
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<a href="https://www.vox.com/the-goods/2020/8/3/21349640/cottagecore-taylor-swift-folklore-lesbian-clothes-animal-crossing">Cottagecore</a> can be summed up as an aesthetic movement idealizing countryside living (think prairie dresses, wooden furniture, wildflowers), and although material goods don’t amount to a philosophical lifestyle shift, the idea that you can fill your home with love with small, everyday acts of nurture — baking bread, cultivating a tomato plant, drinking tea by an open window — can be a moving alternative to a system of labor optimization.
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In both the aesthetic quality of the Frog and Toad illustrations — Arnold Lobel’s olive-y color palette, faded summer greens and friendly browns viewed through sun-blinded eyes — and the surface-level activities of the stories — taking walks, baking cookies, flying kites, and planting seeds — that hide moral lessons of apologizing, indulgence, perseverance, and patience, there was plentiful material to help Frog and Toad ascend to cottagecore icons.
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“We’re so constantly bombarded with bad news all the time,” Crawford says. “And I think the thing that people escape to with cottagecore — and with the <em>Frog and Toad</em> books — is just disappearing into another world where things aren’t bad all the time.”
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The trend to shy away from difficult circumstances with uncomplicated, frictionless depictions of friendship and good times is a point in favor of Frog and Toad as childhood comfort and cottagecore catnip. But the fantasy of the latter could be more powerful for people stuck in small, <a href="https://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/69-of-americans-in-urban-areas-are-living-paycheck-to-paycheck-14-percentage-points-higher-than-suburban-consumers-301832741.html">expensive city apartments</a> without the means of fleeing to the countryside like so many wealthy urbanites did at the beginning of the pandemic. People for whom <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2023/05/23/magazine/vienna-social-housing.html">homeownership is a fanciful delusion</a>, people lucky to see grass at a public park, let alone spend a day <a href="https://hiddenbrain.org/podcast/happiness-2-0-the-reset-button/">taking a walk through nature</a>. People<a href="https://www.vox.com/22992901/how-to-find-your-community-as-an-adult"> feeling isolated</a>, <a href="https://www.vox.com/even-better/23744304/how-much-social-interaction-do-you-need-loneliness-burnout">socially bereft</a>, and <a href="https://defector.com/what-comes-after-meeting-the-neighbors">without a support system</a>.
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“I live at home with my family ’cause I don’t have the income to move out,” says Silas. His economic circumstances are part of the reason he started Frog and Toad Bot to begin with. “It would be great if I could live in a little house with my own partner — or even just living near my partner — and in these warm, small homes. It’s definitely idyllic.”
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But for <a href="https://libertystreeteconomics.newyorkfed.org/2023/02/younger-borrowers-are-struggling-with-credit-card-and-auto-loan-payments/">people his age</a>, and for a <a href="https://kffhealthnews.org/diagnosis-debt/">broad cohort of people</a> closer to <a href="https://www.vox.com/even-better/23591325/money-debt-emotions-financial-therapist">financial precarity</a> than security, Silas is not under any delusions that <a href="https://www.curbed.com/article/cost-of-living-nyc-calculator.html">it’s a life</a> that’s <a href="https://thehill.com/changing-america/sustainability/infrastructure/3739949-here-are-gen-zs-biggest-hurdles-to-homeownership-survey/">accessible to him</a>. “You’re not really going to be able to get that,” he says. “Some people might, but I think you’d have to be independently wealthy.”
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Emotional fulfillment in people who make you feel seen, days set at the pace of your own needs, life devoid of <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/03/business/pandemic-burnout-productivity.html">arbitrary work</a> and the concerns of paying bills (perhaps the most appealing aspect of Lobel’s stories: These amphibians don’t need jobs!) — once you go down the rabbit hole of what life could look like, it’s hard to resurface.
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Rebellion against late 20th-century models of <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2019/8/6/20755193/trick-mirror-jia-tolentino-review">work</a>, <a href="https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/annehelenpetersen/millennials-burnout-generation-debt-work">homebuilding</a>, and American individualism was in the air at the end of the 2010s. That slow-building outrage — and then disbelief — only worsened with the pandemic as federal stimulus checks and <a href="https://www.vox.com/the-goods/2022/12/6/23495045/unemployment-insurance-jobs-report-recession-layoffs-fed">improved unemployment benefits</a> proved that all along there were means to help people who were struggling — just not requisite sympathy. It proved that the capitalist lifestyle was broken. And a lot of people realized when there weren’t <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/business/2021/feb/04/home-workers-putting-in-more-hours-since-covid-research">structures in place between work and home life</a> that they hadn’t made much of an effort to create a fulfilling <a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/2023/06/life-before-cell-phones-internet-after-work.html">life outside the office</a>.
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The “dominant mythology of work,” <a href="https://www.dukeupress.edu/the-problem-with-work">labor theorist</a> Kathi Weeks <a href="http://stateofnatureblog.com/kathi-weeks-work-ethic-gender-postwork-future/">writes</a>, is that it asks us to “cultivate an intimate relationship to work as a site of personal development and social belonging.” But as Tressie McMillan Cottom writes in her <a href="https://static.nytimes.com/email-content/TMC_sample.html?action=click&module=nl-index-see-the-latest">New York Times newsletter</a>, “There is a difference between a job and your life’s work.”
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Rest isn’t necessarily an act of resistance, and buying into the <a href="https://www.mckinsey.com/industries/consumer-packaged-goods/our-insights/feeling-good-the-future-of-the-1-5-trillion-wellness-market">trillion-dollar wellness industry </a>certainly isn’t, but decoupling our intrinsic value from <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/23643247/saving-time-jenny-odell-real-self-care-pooja-laksmin-review">capitalist structures that demand we monetize our time</a>, energy, and <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/23726136/community-privatization-corporations-sam-pressler">relationships</a> is a step in the right direction.
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What sticks out to me about this story is that, even when Toad puts off picking up his clothes from the floor or doing the dishes or dusting, he never neglects Frog. Even if this is a tale of little problems accumulating, it’s also one of priorities. Those marking off to-do lists and making calls and running errands would probably still acknowledge that the business of our daily lives is manufactured. What truly can’t wait until tomorrow is what Toad always makes time for: spending time with Frog.
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“I’m just obsessed with friendship as a concept of: What does it mean to be a good friend? What does it mean to be a good sister, a good daughter, a good friend, a good partner, even,” Thanki says.
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For her, the enduring appeal of Frog and Toad as an adult is not only considering how identifying as queer puts her in historic community with Lobel, but also how his stories model purposeful stewardship of the relationships in our lives. In the 2020s, Frog and Toad retaught us what it means to show up for our communities and loved ones, to rethink the people we want to be when no one is looking but our most precious people need us. Truthfully, Lobel’s world is not one where nothing bad ever happens; the heart of his stories is how we can be compassionate to ourselves and others when it does, how life’s difficulties feel easier with the help of a friend.
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For fifteen years, <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes">/r/Jokes</a> has been one of Reddit’s most-popular communities. That time hasn’t been without its difficulties, but for the most part, we’ve all gotten along (with each other and with administrators). Members of our team fondly remember Moderator Roadshows, visits to Reddit’s headquarters, Reddit Secret Santa, April Fools’ Day events, regional meetups, and many more uplifting moments. We’ve watched this platform grow by leaps and bounds, and although we haven’t been completely happy about every change that we’ve witnessed, we’ve always done our best to work with Reddit at finding ways to adapt, compromise, and move forward.
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On June 12th, 2023, <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes">/r/Jokes</a> joined thousands of other subreddits in protesting the planned changes to Reddit’s API; changes which – despite being immediately evident to only a minority of Redditors – threatened to worsen the site for everyone. By June 16th, 2023, that demonstration had evolved to represent a wider (and growing) array of concerns, many of which arose in response to <a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/technology/2023/06/16/reddit-ceo-blackout-moderators-steve-huffman/">Reddit’s statements to journalists</a>. Today (June 26th, 2023), we are hopeful that users and administrators alike can make a return to the productive dialogue that has served us in the past.
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Commit to providing moderation tools and <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Blind/comments/14ds81l/rblinds_meetings_with_reddit_and_the_current/">accessibility options</a> (on Old Reddit, New Reddit, and mobile platforms) which match or exceed the functionality and utility of third-party applications.
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Guarantee that any future developments which may impact moderators, contributors, or stakeholders will be announced no less than one fiscal quarter before they are scheduled to go into effect.
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Work together with longstanding moderators to establish a reasonable roadmap and deadline for accomplishing all of the above.
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Affirm that efforts meant to keep Reddit accountable to its commitments and deadlines will hereafter not be met with insults, threats, removals, or hostility.
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Publicly affirm all of the above by way of updating Reddit’s User Agreement and Reddit’s Moderator Code of Conduct to include reasonable expectations and requirements for administrators’ behavior.
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Implement and fill a senior-level role (with decision-making and policy-shaping power) of “Moderator Advocate” at Reddit, with a required qualification for the position being robust experience as a volunteer Reddit moderator.
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Reddit is unique amongst social-media sites in that its lifeblood – its multitude of moderators and contributors – consists entirely of volunteers. We populate and curate the platform’s many communities, thereby providing a welcoming and engaging environment for all of its visitors. We receive little in the way of thanks for these efforts, but we frequently endure abuse, threats, attacks, and exposure to truly reprehensible media. Historically, we have trusted that Reddit’s administrators have the best interests of the platform and its users (be they moderators, contributors, participants, or lurkers) at heart; that while Reddit may be a for-profit company, it nonetheless recognizes and appreciates the value that Redditors provide.
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That trust has been all but entirely eroded… but we hope that together, we can begin to rebuild it.
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<p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"> submitted by <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/JokeSentinel"> /u/JokeSentinel </a> <br/> <span><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes/comments/14jn9rg/forging_a_return_to_productive_conversation_an/">[link]</a></span> <span><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes/comments/14jn9rg/forging_a_return_to_productive_conversation_an/">[comments]</a></span></p></li>
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Johnny, if there were five birds sitting on a fence and you shot one with your gun, how many would be left? None, replied Johnny, cause the rest would fly away, Well, the answer is four, said the teacher, but i like the way you’re thinking. Little Johnny says i have a question for you. If there were three women eating ice cream cones in a shop, one was licking her cone, the second was biting her cone and the third was sucking her cone, which one is married? Well said the teacher nervously i guess the one sucking the cone No said little Johnny the one with the wedding ring on her finger, but i like the way you’re thinking.
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<p data-aos="fade-left" data-aos-anchor-placement="bottom-bottom"> submitted by <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Loyalsupporter"> /u/Loyalsupporter </a> <br/> <span><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes/comments/14kref2/little_johnny_was_sitting_in_class_doing_math/">[link]</a></span> <span><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes/comments/14kref2/little_johnny_was_sitting_in_class_doing_math/">[comments]</a></span></p></li>
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“He’s dirty-minded. Perverted. Likes women a little too much, if you know what I mean.”
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“You fucking lied to me about that frog! I got naked and laid in bed in front of him last night and he didn’t do a goddamn thing!”
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“There must be something wrong with him,” replied the shop owner. “Hang on; my brother is a vet. I’ll have him come over and look at your frog. He’s known that frog ever since he was a tadpole.”
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